I will defend women who cheat from moral-panic-induced vilification attempts until every men who cheat are held accountable. Or even better, I will defend them until the monogamous bourgeois heteropatriarchal model of romantic relationships are dismantled.
If you think your partner is cheating on you (assuming you are in a monogamous relationship), you leave them. You don’t try to control them. You don’t hit them. You don’t rape them. Stop justifying abuse and violence through cheating speculations. No one deserves to be abused.
don’t wanna change the subject, but what if she did… who cares? same with accusations about Amber cheating on JD. Amber didn’t cheat, but what if she did? That wouldn’t change a single fact about JD being abusive. If you think it would, reflect on yourself.
and guess what? men cheat all the time. They don’t get half of the heat that women who cheat get. Guess what? male directors date their female actors all the time too. Do you think they get the heat that Olivia Wilde got? Never. Cheating only becomes an issue when women do it.
don’t wanna change the subject, but what if she did… who cares? same with accusations about Amber cheating on JD. Amber didn’t cheat, but what if she did? That wouldn’t change a single fact about JD being abusive. If you think it would, reflect on yourself.
"The complete horseshit idea that I left Jason for Harry is completely inaccurate. Our relationship was over long before I met Harry"
- Olivia Wilde talking about the Rumor internet created of her "leaving Jason Sudeikis for Harry Styles".
Imagine breaking up your family for some faux limp wristed boy band dingaling, he doesn’t even claim you publicly and the film you put him in tanks—This is WILDE