“Personal research” might not suffice when it comes to the affairs of Islam, because you might probably be making your research on Google or AI and not reading the actual text with explanations of renowned Islamic scholars or asking questions directly from those who know.
Genuine question
Is the “72 virgins” reward a myth?
I researched about it and what I learnt was that it’s not written anywhere in the Qur’an but in an Hadith.
Also, it mentioned that it’s 72 wives not virgins and the reward is only for martyrs not all pious men. And scholars argued on the legitimacy.
It was a thought provoking question because I’ve never seen any Muslim talk about it, it’s mostly the unbelievers that bring it up.
I’m Nigerian
Dickson, I was born into a society that’ll judge my entire existence on earth and measure it with the amount of money and property I can attain while I am alive.
No matter my achievements , my society says , if I have no cars and houses for my children, I’m a failure and deserve to be casted away like a man cursed by the gods.
My wife will leave me , my empire will crumble if I do not have this so called money
Money is more than just money or happiness , money is the reason a Nigerian is alive.
My destiny, our destiny, is to make money and only by having that money would we be worthy to be celebrated after we are no more.
Your ears are self-cleaning, you do not need to insert anything into them for cleaning especially those Q-tips (cotton buds), they only push earwax further into the ear which could cause serious damage.
When there is excess earwax in the ear, it emits the ear itself.
I heard it’s not good to insert cotton bud into the ear canal.
I have stopped using it for a while now.
Doctors and health professionals on this app, what should we be using instead?
As a man, if you’re looking to marry; your main focus should be on a woman that will be a good wife for you, not someone that will be a good mother for your children.
Because by default, most women will be good mothers, even the ones that are bad wives.