Yall should be occasionally asking your partner "are we okay" "anything bothering you that you wanna talk to me about" "anything I could be doing better"... yall definitely should be making an effort to stay in tune with who your partner is as they grow.. especially if yall been together a long time... ppl change!
I want the kind of relationship where no matter how hard things get, we sit down, communicate, and figure it out together instead of giving up on each other