@godspeed_aflame Currently sick to my stomach thinking these acts of genuine care and kindness from a loving man, something every woman will tell you is hard to come by, is being used to fuel misogyny.
My opinion on this is lesser as I'm a cis man. But simply put I refuse to dog pile a woman with self harm scars and an existence that may mean bigotry and potential harm. I hope she genuinely is happy and is moving forward with being better.
You already don't and you haven't. This fantasy of the Viking cowboy alpha male who defends his dainty house servant exists in movies. As a gender men haven't been a unique protector of women anymore than we've been predators.