and then today he told me that even though I was the perfect personality match, I just didn't look good enough to date.
which is fine, I'm over it, but we rely missed out on something great back then.
we chatted all day today, I wonder if you smiled when I replied too.
well, although we agreed to be friends, I still totally wish I could've told you how pretty you are with long hair. like, don't cut it, I wanna run my hands through it sometime ๐ซฃ
Straight girl telling her relationship problems to gay man: totally normal
Straight man telling his relationship problems to lesbian woman: still never happened in human history
i always get what i want!
everything i want wants me!
whatever i desire is already mine!
everything is working out in my favor!
i always win!
repeat ๐๐
I wonder why he kept calling me rich the other day and then freaked out when I picked up a wallet. I wasn't thinking to buy it. I bought a $130 sweater and he still was surprised two days later.
why is he thinking of how much money I require if we're not even together?
You scare him.
You are too good & he knows that. He feels inferior. You intimidate him. He canโt imagine you coming down to his level to be with him. Cause he sees you on a pedestal. He doesnโt feel good enough for you. He doesnโt feel worthy. He thinks youโre too good too pretty too smart too successful too nice TOO PERFECT. & he knows that. heโs too scared to rise up to that honor of carrying you. He is afraid. So he runs. And thereโs nothing YOU can do about that. He has to grow on his own.
You scare him.
You are too good & he knows that. He feels inferior. You intimidate him. He canโt imagine you coming down to his level to be with him. Cause he sees you on a pedestal. He doesnโt feel good enough for you. He doesnโt feel worthy. He thinks youโre too good too pretty too smart too successful too nice TOO PERFECT. & he knows that. heโs too scared to rise up to that honor of carrying you. He is afraid. So he runs. And thereโs nothing YOU can do about that. He has to grow on his own.