i automatically owe you if you've helped me before. there's always a way to return good gestures, and i will surely return them.
to me, only the helper has the luxury of thinking/believing you're helping because you're in a position to help and wanna help, not cause you want them to owe you or be indebted to you.
I'm sure those people I told to drop account number for cash gift of 50k each weren't expecting it.
Heard about the good news for up to 3 months now, or more.
I'm deciding to do it now because they are real people.
Nothing changed from how they were interacting with me or their regard toward me after I just told them congratulations and nothing more.