@polo_man404 Most of these points apply to both men and women. Women hate older men. Even if they marry them for money, they cheat on them with younger men. Men's kids are also liabilities to women. Women also hate extra shit; dreads, piercings, tattoos etc.
As a man, I don't believe you don't know women that actually like you.
To convince yourself that nobody likes you until you have money is just self sabotage.
Sometimes, the things God gives you stress-free are the most impactful of all. While healthy ambition is good, there is a lot of uneccessary strife and jostling that goes into attainment these days.