I'm certain you’re not the one feeding them, let them be; there is nothing wrong with poor people having more than one child. We’re just in a nation where the leaders and the government don't value lives.
@Gbenskisaveme Those who do often join because they think it will make them powerful, or at least leave the poverty zone in as much as we aren't the one feeding them daily we don't have a say over them on how they should live or give birth.
Nigeria is too hard. The economy is shit. Yet, some people are more interested in how much they can take from you in a relationship than how much they can contribute to the relationship? Do you even care how your man is surviving in this economy?
"Broke men, broke men." Is your father not broke?
As a man, you cannot claim not to know when you're dating your enemy in this economy.
I have a friend that's an associate Prof,she's married with 3 kids. Her husband does everything in the house,even to filling the gas,fueling her car, servicing her car,he does it. He drives her to the market once a month, gives her his card and waits for her in the car to get every foodstuff they need for the house,he pays the children's school fees alone,and even paid her fees when she did her PhD. He said her salary is for herself alone,and she should be using it to take care of herself,did I add that he placed both her parents on monthly allowance too?
So they're men that will do those things you cannot do.
Despite Nigeria's challenges, I will be wealthy.
My business will grow and be built on purpose. I will be a light in my generation, a person of influence, generosity, and honor.
Amin. Ase. Olodumare. 😊✨