This is how you should raise your kids, with integrity. Teach them to look after others and everything around them. Teach them to be giving and selfless.
If you want change, do something about it. Change requires action. People will talk about wanting change and yet do nothing that requires them to change. If you’re sincere about it, seek the Almighty’s help. He will pave the way for you.
For as long you’re alive, keep hope alive. Hope in the Mercy of the Almighty. Hope that He wants what’s best for you & will give it to you at the right time. So whatever you’re facing - trials, stress, broken affairs, have hope that they’re all temporary. Better days are ahead.