There are so many voices telling you how to define your happiness. You have to fight for the autonomy to define it yourself. Always why your wants. That’s how you build a life that has you all over it. It doesn’t have to be perfect it just has to be yours.
regardless of the answer, I’m still gonna leave her blocked. Actually let me look her up on LinkedIn and block her there too.
Because that mouth she is using to report me up and down for blocking her, she will use it to tell people what she did too. Kalas
realizing that you're incompatible with someone (because they don't meet your basic standards of courtesy, respect and reciprocation) and choosing to walk away instead of forcing it/ blaming yourself/fantasizing about their potential is a superpower. look how much you've grown.
Haha! This is a classic money principle problem that often arises in relationships. When two people have different money principles, it can lead to conflicts. For instance, a generous person who doesn’t plan for the future might meet a frugal person who won’t compromise on their financial goals.
After the live game, I’d walk up to people and interview them. I noticed that a lot of people were saying No. It usually goes like this.
Me: Hi, can I interview you?
Them: Where will you post it?
Me: My social media
Them: I will pass
So I reframed it
Me: Hi, can I interview you for MoneyAfrica, a leading financial literacy platform with about 1 million following across multiple platforms.
Them: YES
If you keep getting Nos, consider reframing your offering.
"The greatest sin you can commit against your own life, is to know what you want...and not to act." - Stafford
Do not betray yourself.
Take the Chance.
You've got to get almost annoyingly serious about trusting yourself. You heard what you heard. You saw what you saw. You felt what you felt. Your body is speaking to you. Believe it.
“Six months from now is going to arrive whether you do anything or not. The only question is whether Future You gets there wishing she’d started today, or thanking herself that she did.”
The places where you work immediately you enter the job market is incredibly important. If you have the choice, please prioritize places that would take the time to nurture your growth. That foundation will carry you for the rest of your career. I’m not exaggerating
Nigerians are actually a very dense group it’s insane. Every year we act shocked that Lagos floods. They’ll act shocked again next year.
No maintenance or solution culture