I think people assume women are choosing between motherhood and relationships.
Some of us want both.
The problem is that motherhood has a timeline.
Waiting for someone to get their life together doesn’t.
I’m at that age where I’m both grateful and disappointed.
Grateful for what I have.
Disappointed that some of the things I’ve prayed for, worked for, and waited for still haven’t happened.
Somehow, I carry both every day.
One of the hardest feelings I’ve ever experienced is wanting a relationship with God and feeling like He doesn’t want one with me.
Not because I stopped trying.
But because sometimes the silence feels louder than any answer.
Maybe this is unpopular, but I’m not a traditional girl’s girl.
I don’t think women are always right.
I don’t think men are always wrong.
Some are kind.
Some are selfish.
Some are honest.
Some are not.
I judge situations based on character, not gender.