Walk. Read. Be honest. Eat well. Do not drink or do drugs alone. Take care of your appearance, but otherwise do not think of it. Think well of yourself but do not lie to yourself. Go to the gym. Be kind and devoted. Be grateful of everything, even for the blue sky.
in your 20s as african man. atleast do yourself the favour of seeing what you look like with long hair. dreads or braids or whatever. don’t die being on low cut all your life bc of african standards.