@Madridghost1 Well said.
People migrate and still struggle without sellable skills.
You think the ambition you can’t exhibit in your country will suddenly manifest and produce magic in a foreign clime where there’s stiff competition & racism?
Invest in a skill. Shalom.
A man can choose to fight despite no guarantee of victory.
He can choose to seek despite the possibility of never finding.
He can choose to ask despite expecting no reward.
He does it anyway.
Because that is his nature.
@Dartte__45 💯
The absolute best way to get to know your girl.
Is to travel internationally together for a two week trip and rent a studio apartment together.
Women can’t pretend for so long in presence of food,enjoyment & freedom.
@bibzyCarter If you earn $500 a month when you’re single, you can focus on increasing your income, investing more, and living simply within your means
Once you get married, a big part of your income goes toward running the household & you also have to sacrifice stability over taking risks
@bibzyCarter Argument is both for & against.
If you're a man who is naturally intelligent, driven and oriented towards hierarchy ascension,getting married might set you back
But if you're quite apathetic, it can also propel you forward despite,nay, maybe even because of the difficulties.
@Morris_Monye There are a lot of reasons to starve or be homeless.
Pride shouldn't be one of them, particularly amongst those you call friends.
Swallow that shit and ask the homies for help.
@chibuikssss If you're an obese parent, you are robbing your child of a healthy role model,you are robbing them of a parent to actively play with, and you are robbing them of years of life together with your functional decline and inevitable premature death because of your obsession with food
Sometimes, the gap between where you are and where you want to be has nothing to do with effort.
You might find yourself working harder than ever, yet the massive, structural changes you dream of remain just out of reach
Sometimes It’s simply who you know & what you can prove
@olateeman Either side dishing dirt on the other in rough times to third parties is never going to end well, because once things are fixed,
How can your partner hold their head high around those you gossiped about them to?
Very difficult to do but important.
@AniebietChrist3 As African men, The first question you get asked when you visit an in-law’s house i:
“What do you do for work?
They barely ask if you love their daughter or not
Parents understand that lack pulverizes love
Another evidence that love is never enough
@UnkleAyo Most of us are running.
Running away from poverty.
Running away from where we come from.
We have left friends and family behind.
But, we careless so we don’t end up in the ring fighting that demon (poverty) that brings incredible assault on the human spirit
Keep running!