My friends call me James. My enemies have learned not to call. My wife calls Me Master. @kykyx_03 M/s dynamic. 24/7 TPE. Pro gun American πΊπ² Views are My own.
A true M/s dynamic does not cease to exist at the threshold of the bedroom door. It is deeply, intrinsically intertwined with daily life.
The Master and slave are not playing roles to be discarded, changed, or switched. They are living their authentic personalities in 24/7 TPE.
@WillHartley1980 I agree with the definition of edge play as more intense/higher risk kink activities. It's a generally understood term for those kinks which would make even many experienced players pull back and avoid that territory.
Many are safe if done correctly by people with experience.
@WillHartley1980 My slave and I engage in a lot of these with heavy scenes of needles, blood play, and watersports.
One I avoid is gun play. I am an expert marksman with a law enforcement background as well as competitive shooting. Firearms are just too dangerous for kink, even with expertise.
@Sir_Garnet13 Yes. I've thankfully been able to advise a few new and aspiring Doms in the past when I've seen this happening to them. The emotional vampires aren't always difficult to spot but it does require an experienced eye sometimes.
@Sir_Garnet13 This is very well explained and I fully agree. Vetting is incredibly important on both sides.
I feel in particular for less experienced Doms who end up with a demanding and manipulative sub and feel like they are failing because they can't live up to the unreasonable demands.
There is an unfathomable difference between being a whore and being His whore.
Not everyone will understand this but those who do are truly happy and have the best sex lives.
@guideforlovers This is more true than most married men will realize. She doesn't want to be treated like a delicate flower just because you're married with kids.
She wants to be spanked, slapped, choked, groped, fondled, and pounded like she's your personal whore. Marriage changes nothing.
@Sir_Garnet13 No. But I have escaped a narsasitctic submissive who demanded exhausting levels of attention and care while refusing to ever truly accept genuine submission or power exchange.
Some subs get into the mindset of being served and catered to and forget that they are there to serve.
D/s and M/s are not about the kinky sex. Wild sex and heavy kink scenes are a bonus, not the focus or priority.
D/s and M/s are both fundamentally about a relationship. Specifically, a relationship of consensual power exchange customized to fit that particular couple's lives.