One Abuja woman shared her story. She said she found out that her husband was secretly asking a POS lady on their street out.
So she went to the girl and asked her to agree, since the girl looked calm and shy, but on the condition that any money given to her by the husband would be shared 50/50.
The girl agreed and started giving her the agreed percentage. To her surprise, the money was always big. But whenever she asked her husband for money to sort her personal needs, he would say he doesn’t have.
Recently, she found out that the girl was pregnant, so she went to confr0nt her.
But the girl switched up immediately and told her that if they could share the man’s money, then they could equally share the man.
That was how the babe turned into her co wife and also her rival.
Me: you've finally gotten what you want, ntorr.
Niklaus Mikaelson said the exact thing to his sister Freeda.
"Sister, I know you're not used to technology but when you see my name pop up on your screen, you answer it"
20 Things a Woman Doesn’t Need to Share With Everyone
1. Your body count. Not everyone asks out of genuine curiosity.
2. How much money you make. Some people will admire you for it, others will quietly resent it.
3. Whether you live alone. Your safety should always come first.
4. Your deepest insecurities. Share them with people who have earned your trust.
5. Your past traumas. Vulnerability is valuable, but timing matters.
6. How attached you already are. Let relationships grow naturally.
7. Your fear of losing someone. Fear can sometimes make you accept less than you deserve.
8. Your loneliness. Being lonely doesn’t mean you should settle.
9. Your financial struggles. Not everyone who offers help has good intentions.
10. Your daily routine. A little privacy goes a long way.
11. Your timeline for marriage. Life isn’t a race, and neither is love.
12. Everything that went wrong in your previous relationship. Some lessons are better shared when trust has been established.
13. Your emotional triggers. The right people will learn them with care, not use them against you.
14. Your passwords and personal information. Boundaries matter.
15. Family conflicts and private issues. Not every listener is a safe space.
16. Your biggest dreams and desires. Protect them while you’re building them.
17. Your moments of self-doubt. Work through them without letting them define you.
18. Plans that are still taking shape. Sometimes silence protects progress.
19. Every chapter of your life story on the first meeting. Let people get to know you over time.
20. Anything that compromises your peace, privacy, or safety.
This isn’t about being mysterious. It’s about understanding that trust is earned, not automatically given.
once i start looking at you differently, it's a wrap. no amount of apologies will fix it. i'm not even mad at you, you're just so weird to me now. that goes for family, friends, relationships all that.
I’ve met people who barely talk about God but treat others with love, and I’ve met people who never miss church but don’t know how to treat people right.