South Africa Zulu woman’s cry out for protesting, seeking for the return of foreigners, their husbands are foreigners asking yeh government to do something about it. 😁😁😁😁
Sorry to rehash the duty sex discourse but a lot of men seem to be completely clueless of the fact that sex feels very different to women based solely on whether or not they’re physically turned on. I think this is because men are incapable of penetrative sex if they’re not physically aroused.
But women can absolutely experience penetrative sex with the female version of a flaccid penis (not aroused). Do you all really think a gyno appointment or putting in a tampon is a little bit pleasurable for us ? It’s not.
What makes sex feel good for women is being horny. That’s why duty sex sucks. You might as well be giving her a Pap smear.
A close friend of mine lost her husband due to this Same situation.
Her hubby had HBP.
He went to the hospital. Got the best medication and he was fine.
But he stopped taking the medication given to him.
His wife didn't know and he was even making jest to his kids that they should not tell their mum o. He's not taking his medication.
It kept on Until it hit one day and led to stroke.
His wife entered the room and met him stranded on the floor,he couldn't move.
They rushed him to the hospital and the brother who was a doctor was checking on him.
The wife came back to the hospital after she went to cook and all.
On entering the hospital,a woman told her "Take heart ma, so sorry for your loss"
Tears were already rolling down her eyes as she met her husband lying lifeless.
He passed😭😭😭😭😭😭
Please take your medication seriously.
It hurts when you leave an innocent family to mourn you so quickly.
We attended a wedding and throughout the event, I was just feeling somehow and irritated, and when the food was served, I couldn't even bring myself to eat.
I quietly told my husband, "I don't think I'm feeling too well, let's start heading home.
On our way, I remembered that my period was overdue. My husband looked at me and said, "Why not get a test strip first?"
We got the test strip, did the test, and the result came out positive.
Omo! I was so shy.
Suddenly, all the irritation, mood swings, and lack of appetite started making sense.
My husband couldn't stop teasing me that night.
Imagine me thinking I was just having a bad day, not knowing baby was already announcing its presence.😂😂
@Dc_Atuegwu Why can't your Brother prepare his visiting Mother's breakfast?
Your Mum claims to go there to help but is expecting to be served by the new Mum. They don't correlate. She should just say that she went to spend time with Son and Grandchild. She's causing issues. Best to go back.
*your patient's husband invites you to attend Thanksgiving in her church. Patient comes out with newborn and husband for Thanksgiving.
Her: " ...Praise God, this was a miraculous delivery. The doctor said it'll be a c/section because baby was breech..."
*goes ahead to sing and dance
Me: "hope she's not about to say what I'm thinking..."
Her: "But my God disgraced the doctors. Baby turned and I delivered normally..."
Me:👀👀 "but she was told about 3-8% can turn on it's own"
Pastor: "May God continue to disgrace these doctors... "
Me: 👀👀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
I don’t really know the exact cause of them being paraded like this.
But if it has to do with sex, meaning both of them had sex that led to them being humiliated and shamed this way, it’s very wrong. These are two adults with well-developed brains. If they chose to have sex and neither forced the other, that’s their personal business.
From my guess, the woman may be another man’s pregnant wife. I do not support cheating. She did something wrong, but she was not forced.
The only person who has the right to react is the woman’s husband, and his only reaction should be to divorce her.
A woman was in a coma in the hospital, and she was continuously raped until she got pregnant. The hospital found out and carried out investigations and found out a male employee has been raping her all the while she was in coma.
A 3 year old baby was raped by a grown man.
A homeless mad woman on the street was raped by a man.
A lady who was fully covered was raped by a man.
A lady who was sleeping on her bed in her own home was raped and killed.
A daughter was raped by her own father.
I can go on and on…
But once these heartbreaking stories make it to the media, some of you immediately start looking for ways to blame the victim, talking about
“women need to learn how to avoid being abused”
“Maybe she’s this, maybe she’s that”
Are you people crazy?
Instead of teaching men that no matter what, even if they see a woman walking naked, they still have no right to touch or abuse or rape her.
The women in all the scenarios above, how exactly were they supposed to avoid being raped?
Make it make sense.
#SayNoToRape
If you have ulcer, toothache or diabetes, include cloves in your diet. If you don't have any of these conditions, still consider including cloves. Repost and read on
Before going to the benefits, I found it amazing that clove is called kànáfùrù in Yorùbá, Kananfari in Hausa and Kanafura in Dangbali (Ghana). How did we all agree with to call it similar names? Anyways, let's move on.
One of the best ways to use cloves is to grind it and add to your spices. They'll actually add special taste to your meals. You can also sprinkle the powder in tea or pap. You can cook the whole cloves and drink its tea. You can also just swallow the powder with water. Let's now look at the health benefits
1. ULCER
Some days ago, I wrote about how our stomach produce acid for digestion and how mucus layer protects that stomach lining from ulcer. Now, most ulcer are cause by thinning of this mucus layer. Some studies have shown that eating cloves in large amounts can thicken this mucus, which will in turn lower your your risk of getting ulcers help in healing ulcer if you already have.
2. DIABETES
If you're diabetic, eugenol in cloves can help lower your blood glucose to safe levels. In the same vein, you should be careful of taking too much so that the blood sugar will not be reduced too much. Hypoglycemia, which is when blood sugar is tii low, is as dangerous. So, you want to be moderate.
3. TOOTH ACHE
I learnt this while staying in the North before reading about its medical proof. If you have tooth ache, crush cloves and grind it to paste. Apply to the tooth. You should feel relieved in minutes. Eugenol in clove is a natural anesthetic (numbing agent) and it's the one responsible here. You may get clove oil for faster results.
They're also rich in antioxidants and so, they'll help mop up free radicals and and help prevent/reduce inflammation. Some studies also claim that they can help liver function when consumed moderately.
Finally, these are just some of the few health benefits of cloves and they're cheap compared to many drugs. APPLY MODERATION in its use and share this for others who may need it.
Tainkyu 😊
From the way you held it and your message, I'm sure it has sprayed you. The chemical it sprayed you with, pederin, is more potent than cobra venom.
You're holding a rove beetle, commonly called skirt and blouse in Nigeria.
Let me prepare your mind for what's coming. You'll soon start noticing a reddish swelling that burns on your skin. It would look like hot water was poured on you. If you rub the affected part with other parts, it may also spread. The symptom persists for a week or more.
To avoid the spreading of symptoms, wash the affected area with clean, fresh water and soap and in case of eyes rinse them with fresh water. There are antibiotics and pharmaceutical creams (topical steroids) that you can get to help with alleviate the symptoms. You can go to the hospital for this.
Female rove beetles are the only ones that can manufacture pederin. Males can only store little that they got from their mother when she laid the eggs.
This is one of the most depraved cases you will ever read.
A UK teacher, Jamie Varley, and his homosexual partner adopted 13-month-old Preston Davey.
In just four months they sexually abused him, beat him so badly he had 40 traumatic injuries, filmed it, and murdered him by forcing objects into his mouth and airways.
They claimed he accidentally drowned in the bath. The evidence showed his hair was dry and there was no water in his lungs.
He was taken to hospital three times with suspicious bruises. Social services and the adoption agency were in the picture.
They all failed him.
The adoption process was supposedly “strict and rigorous.” What an absolute joke.
These two should never walk free again.
The death penalty is too good for people who do this to a baby.
The UK’s child protection system is rotten. Multiple missed chances. Multiple red flags ignored.
Another innocent child sacrificed because the authorities refused to do their job.
The United Kingdom is truly a depraved country.
I was accused of stealing in my hostel a day after i was sick. in my common room because I was sitting beside where the owner of the power bank charged it.
The porter came to my room the next day and said she saw it through the camera because i was wearing a duvet, i cried and told her i didn't, that i was bending because i was cold like, she was so happy to prove that i stole it, when all she saw was me wrapping myself ah.
Fortunately it was found after everyone left because apparently a cleaner took it and kept it in a drawer that morning
Honestly I'm so pained, so hurt, people are coming to tell me that they heard people calling me a thief a whole me??
JUST IN:
Fulani kidnappers abducted two residents in Umuahia North and demanded millions in ransom.
Instead of waiting helplessly, hundreds of local youths stormed the forests, surrounded the kidnappers, rescued the victims alive, and captured all six suspects.
The victims are back home. The kidnappers are in police custody.
A powerful reminder that courage and community can achieve what fear cannot.
God bless Ndi Abia. But next time, send those monsters to heaven instead taking them to the police.
If you’re going to Japa, please don’t Japa to Europe by road or through the sea. It’s a death trap.
A few years ago, I met a Nigerian guy in Italy couple of years ago who told me a story that still gives me chills. He called me this morning and still reminded me how that situation hunts him till today. He left Nigeria full of hope, sold almost everything he had, borrowed money from family and friends, and joined a group heading to Europe through Niger and Libya.
The first shock was the desert. For days, they were packed inside the back of a pickup truck like cargo. No shade. No proper food. No clean water. Just sand, heat, and prayers.
One afternoon, a young man traveling with them collapsed from dehydration. The driver stopped, looked at him, and simply said, “If we wait, everyone dies.” They left him there in the middle of the Sahara. Alive. No grave. No goodbye. No phone call to his family. Just endless sand.
By the time they reached Libya, he thought the worst was over. He was wrong.
He said Libya was hell. Armed men controlled everything. Migrants were treated like property. Some were beaten. Some were kidnapped. Some were forced to call home while being tortured so their families could send money.
One night, they packed over a hundred people into a rubber boat designed for a fraction of that number. Mothers carrying babies. Young men chasing dreams. People who simply wanted a better life.
Hours into the journey, the engine failed. The sea became their judge.
Waves started hitting the boat. People screamed. People prayed. People confessed sins. One woman held her child above her head as water poured into the boat.
Then panic started. And panic kills faster than water.
People pushed each other trying to survive. Some fell into the sea. Some disappeared in the darkness, never to be seen again.
He told me the worst sound wasn’t the waves. It was hearing people scream for help and slowly go silent. One voice after another until there was nothing left to hear.
He survived because a rescue vessel spotted them at dawn. Out of everyone who started that journey with him from Nigeria, many never made it. Some died in the desert. Some disappeared in Libya. Some were swallowed by the Mediterranean.
No family burial. No final goodbye. No cries.
If you’re planning to leave Nigeria, I understand. Everyone wants a better life. But please, don’t gamble your life in the desert or the sea. No country is worth dying for before you even get there.
A delayed dream is better than a permanent grave. 💔🙏🏾
@SMURFIYY@akinalabi My father never came out to seek funds from anyone. He was hardworking, and lived a fulfilled life ,he also bore children that took care of him till his last breath.
Please don't do this
Thank you!
A man who lives in Taraba State was kidnapped.
The kidnappers demanded ₦50 million as ransom. After his family sold his properties and car, they were only able to raise ₦30 million.
They pleaded with the kidnappers, who later agreed to accept the ₦30 million. They instructed that the money should be delivered to a local government area called Karim Lamido. They also demanded that only one person should bring the money, warning that any slight mistake would cost the man his life.
When it was time to take the money, every family member said they could not afford to take such a risk.
The man's son was willing to take the money, but he was still a small boy and not yet 20 years old.
After a few days without hearing from the family, the kidnappers threatened to kill the man.
His mechanic, who had recently worked on his car and lived in the same area, heard about the situation. He visited the family and was informed about what was happening.
The mechanic accepted to deliver the ransom to the kidnappers.
Early the next morning, he left for Karim Lamido. When he got there, no commercial motorcycle rider was willing to take him to the location described by the kidnappers, so he had to trek for almost two hours.
Throughout the journey, the kidnappers stayed on the phone, directing him at every turn. The route was mainly cattle paths rather than roads people normally used.
When he reached the second forest, he saw two men waiting on a motorcycle. They called him over and told him to follow them.
According to him, one of the men was carrying an AK-47 rifle. He sat between them on the motorcycle, and at that moment, he said his final prayer.
The journey took another two hours before they arrived at another location, where four more men were waiting. They confirmed the money.
He did not see the kidnapped man there, but the kidnappers assured him that the man was alive and would be released immediately after the money was confirmed.
After confirming the ransom, the kidnappers released the victim in Gombe State. In fact, they put him inside a vehicle heading towards Taraba State, gave him his phone back, and allowed him to call his family to confirm that he had been released.
The kidnappers then instructed him to turn around and never look back. They gave him directions, and in less than ten minutes he was already back in Karim Lamido town.
It turned out that the kidnappers had deliberately given the mechanic a long and stressful route while bringing the money in order to confuse him. However, they later showed him the shortest route back to town, which took less than ten minutes.
The most remarkable part of the story was that the mechanic's wife was heavily pregnant and almost due to give birth during that period. Despite the risk, he chose to help a customer who had always brought his vehicles to his workshop.
@Ruby_Damie Dad who has an injured leg and lost his job is an Alcoholic who steals the money his Wife hustled to keep the Family's body and soul together to drink and gamble.
The Woman should stop committing this heinous act.
The Man's life isn't over. He can learn crocheting, work online.