i’m learning to pray about everything fr. my attitude, my emotions, my overthinking, my healing, my habits, the people i attract, my lack of motivation sometimes… all of it. i give it to God because i know i can’t carry everything on my own.
I wanna marry into a functional family not just me & him in our own little world. I’m talking cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners, birthdays that actually mean something. I wanna go get breakfast with my mother-in-law, go shopping with his siblings, feel included fr. I don’t want it to just be “us” all the time, I want a family that’s really family oriented.
I’m single cause I wanna be in a healthy relationship. A completely honest relationship without all the games, or the lying & cheating. I wanna have fun with the person I’m with. Go on trips, vacations & cute dates ect, but nobody on what I’m on.
Just apologize when you know that you fucked up... All of that manipulative behavior and being mad at a person for being mad at you when they have a legit reason to be is just weird shit... People love to say they grown until it's time to hold themselves accountable!
We can’t date casually. We can’t casually have sex. There’s nothing casual about being in my space. I’m a real lover. There is nothing casual about my intimacy. There is nothing casual about my heart.
You mfs out here be built different. Ain’t no way I’d mistreat or misuse a person who ain’t been nothing but good to me. If anything, those the kind of people you want to keep around. The ones with good intentions. Some people just don’t care about constantly creating bad karma. Then wonder why karma always visiting them. You created the cycle. If you’re not gonna do right by people, cut them off, leave them alone. Quit disturbing pure hearted people
It's crazy how you can't even address real-life problems as grown adults anymore. You try to talk about what hurt you, what confused you, what bothered you, and it turns into cutting each other off, raised voices, disrespect, or somebody shutting down. We really out here losing family, friendships, and relationships cause people don't know how to communicate without turning everything into a war.
Nowadays, everything gets labeled as "tripping," "nagging," "being extra," or "starting drama." When half the time we just want to fix it so everybody can vibe again. But for some reason everybody wanna act tough, like calm but loud is a weakness. Nobody wants to be vulnerable, nobody wants tr listen, and that's exactly why everything keeps falling apart.