Of course, I'm not denying the kink. I was referring more to the way a submissive presents himself as such right from the start and seems to genuinely believe he is worthless rather than actually deriving pleasure from it, especially when self-humiliation is his main or only way of interacting.
I hate when subs refer to themselves as useless or worthless. Because what kind of value am I supposed to extract from you to benefit my life?
Perhaps you do have the means, but your behavior doesn't align with my standards. Thanks for the authenticity, though.
Bring me the men who are in charge, confident, and powerful without ever weaponizing that power against anyone. Men who remain humble, who have substance. Men who choose to surrender from a place of strength.
Men who perceive the act of sending as something beautiful, something that enhances my life, not as a means of gaining control over how I choose to use it.
Actually, for me, foreplay starts with the mind. Meaningful conversations, teasing without touching, thoughtful ge$tures without expectations, genuine care, consistency, and knowing how to compliment my body in the most perversely respectful way. That's what awakens my deepest desire.
I've weathered countless storms, hoping calm would prevail.
The enveloping heat that comes from being the center of a world that isn't mine.
I had a vision. A perception meant to carve its way into reality.
Wavering between unutterable feelings, legitimacy, and a voracious thirst for power.
Beyond complexity lies veracity, unfolding blurriness, yet leaving the anchored source indissoluble.
I prefer dumbfuck, which was once suggested by my favorite sub. But my love wallet is another one I like to use for intelligent and emotionally mature men who love to spend on me. Usually the only type I develop anything with anyway. The others don't deserve these or any words at all.
Once sending money becomes an act of selfishness meant to take control of the dynamic, findom loses all its meaning. You don't require or buy dominance, you earn it, and cherish the guidance that naturally arises from genuine submission.
It was an ordinary day, yet a subtle but brilliant glimmer managed to slip in.
Though fleeting, the words called out to me, asking for longevity and meaning that would cross the threshold into tangibility.
Far from indifferent, I nonetheless continued on my way. Far from taking the leap, yet close enough to let it burn over me.
Hope was never the wager. I was the stake. And him, I knew he was mine.
They always come back. Although that's often true, most never fully immerse themselves in real submission, the kind that requires resources, unwavering devotion, and an investment in the person behind the role. That's why they come and go as though it means nothing, because they barely give anything in the first place.
Genuine submissives are in it for the long run, for months, years, if not a lifetime. And if they do leave, they rarely ever come back. They've given everything, from the very beginning to the very end. There's nothing left to surrender.
I love that you sent again. But you can't decide for me whether I consider your means sufficient or not. It's not like you sent pennies. Tell me who you are! I don't appreciate having my right to approach you taken away from me lol. Unless you really do prefer to remain silent.
Some of y'all never leave your username when you send, and it saddens me lol. But hey, I do enjoy having my overpriced coffee paid for. Another one, perhaps?
Men get so mad when you don't want to cater to them. That's insane. In a space where they explicitly know that catering to us is their job, it's even more hilarious.
Like, no, Kevin. I will not apologize for having a little attitude when you don't want me to, nor will I stop being sweet when I feel like it. And no, I will not stop making money a priority. That doesn't mean I'm heartless. One doesn't negate the other.
And no, I will not sell you anything, create custom content for you, do sessions, or give you access to me in real time. I will not take accountability for your lack of proper communication or genuine desire to submit.
And no means no.
So I had this sub. He sent a couple of times, was respectful, and most of our interactions were enjoyable, although limited. He took the time to tell me that he adores me and that he had simply been busy lately, with little time to be on Twitter. Which, fairly enough, I understand.
See, the part that doesn't sit right with me is when you tell me that, but then go out of your way to comment on other Dommes posts despite me explicitly telling you not to, while supposedly being so busy, and somehow still manage not to send when you're expected to.
Hun. You may play behind my back as much as you want, but certainly not in my face, and even less so by failing to honor my rules. Bye bye.
Sometimes you have a crush on a sub. You can sense the potential for compatibility. His thoughtful words and appropriate public behavior get right through you. He gives you a few likes here and there, but his DMs are closed. He doesn't follow you and remains in the shadows, never making any substantial gesture. And the most frustrating part? The fact that he chooses to be selective, especially considering how he portrays himself, only makes him even more attractive.