You know what I find interesting?
How someone can criticize & dehumanize someone else for their choices, regardless of what they are, with insults, slurs & threats, but as soon as they come back with the same energy, suddenly it's a problem & they're "crashing out" or "problematic". Meanwhile the one who threw the first punch is the pot & the kettle, but they're not ready to admit that. It's always someone else's fault that they are the way they are & treat people the way that they do.
It's the definition of "I can throw it out, but I can't take it back".