For beginners, it can be especially important to focus on embodiment. Your body often says yes/no/maybe before you do. It can be simply noticing the signals, and getting curious about them with your play partner ☀️
My frontal lobe developed and I do not have energy for inconsistent subs.
For me it’s very important that you follow through with your words and maintain a consistent energy.
I’m going to ignore those kinds, I’m not someone you approach when you’re h0rny.
You don't propose marriage on a first date. Stop proposing long-term dynamics in a first DM.
Long term grows out of sessions, sends, effort and time. Talking about "forever" before you've shown up once is fake intimacy.
I did something generous today: I went through My LoyalFans store and lowered prices. Consider it an open invitation to see Me where I'm most at home.
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Been getting more financial applications this month. Ill post this right here for you pets to access. Lets write up a debt contract.🤭
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Inconsistency tells Me everything I need to know. It's a red flag and the only way that road goes is your privilege to contact Me being taken away. Some learn to correct themselves, and I notice. Others never learn. Which one are you?
Some societal negativity surrounds the concept of Dominance. However, when used mindfully and consensually, Dominance can be a force for good, providing structure, direction, and growth.
A quick clarification, since it keeps coming up: no mentorships. Couples apply as couples, not as a back door for one of you. And if I ever show someone in a couple how to dominate, it will be the female/fem.
AND IF YOU'RE A FAN:
Understand that your favorite creators are not guaranteed to stay on your favorite platforms. Following someone is not the same as being able to find them when an account gets suspended, a site closes, or an algorithm stops showing you their work.
Bookmark their websites. Follow their official backup accounts. Subscribe to their updates if they offer them. Don't make them start from zero every time.
Support creators in ways that *actually* benefit them. If you've got money to spend, look for direct purchases, subscriptions, tips, or other offerings they explicitly recommend. Dont haggle or look for bargains, it's fucking predatory in this environment. If you're asking for personalized energy, such as buying direct, be willing to pay for that on top of the content.
And if money is tight? Look up how to boost visibility for each platform, it changes every few months. (Right now it's copy post links) Do that on everything.
Recognize that convenience has a cost. The same platforms that make it easy to discover creators can also decide which creators you're allowed to discover.
If you value independent art, adult entertainment, unconventional voices, and the people creating things outside the corporate mainstream, occasionally make the tiny effort required to find and support them outside your usual feed.
And please stop assuming creators can survive indefinitely on exposure and compliments. Neither one pays the electric bill that continues to climb with data centers moving next door.