Foot worshipping in the sauna together with my partner in crime @missrose_heels 💕
Piggy had to lick all our sweat from our divine feet and drink our delicious spit - what a dream 😈
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Being boldly outspoken online holds risks.
Exposure holds risks.
This is why so many fear taking up space or using their voices on the internet.
People will pick your words apart, project their own beliefs, fears, insecurities and perceptions on you, make assumptions and even get off on the drama.
I have been exposed in the online space since 2018.
And through the years, I have been more and more outspoken about my philosophy around FemDom and BDSM, unapologetically.
My practice as a Mistress was always sacred to me. And as a Mentor, I hold myself on the same standard and understand the responsibility I hold to lead women on their Mistress Journey, I do not take this lightly. It is also sacred to me.
I first entered the SW industry in 2011 from a very disempowered place and experienced heavy trauma. I barely got out of what I got myself into (if you know my story you know).
And when I reentered the industry in 2017, I knew my boundaries, that I would work for myself, and that becoming a Professional Dominatrix was a calling.
In 5 years, I built something extraordinary. I made a shit ton of money, yes, but I also had real, genuine and long lasting D/s relationships, with subs I respected and who respected me. Not just who admired me, but actually cared about me, as I cared about them.
I had my own Dungeon, that was one of the best in Montreal, and I had an online practice that I developed during COVID that helped my business explode.
When I got pregnant and decided to leave the industry as a ProDomme, I dedicated my heart and soul to build the most powerful courses for Dommes. It started with The Dominatrix Academy, and then building a Membership and Sisterhood for Dommes to connect from all over the world. I show up there every single day and create classes and programs based on what they are moving through and need to improve their practice, make more money and from a way that feels aligned with them, not at the expense of their integrity, and to build something that can sustain them in the long haul.
Up to this day I get messages from my clients/subs from many years ago. Thanking me for our time together.
And now I consistently receive gratitude messages and even gifts from the women who work with me.
I am very proud of what I built and most importantly, how I built it. It holds my heart beat.
Yes, there will always be people who don't resonate, or who don't like me or what I teach or how I do things.
But we are all adults, and we should therefore address concerns like adults. In a mature, ethical, loving way. Not with hate threads.
I am extremely disheartened that the controversy I am facing is coming from peers and women I respected.
Not from some online troll or someone outside the industry judging SWers. That I was prepared to debate with, to defend my community.
Yet, the women who are questioning me publicly and writing about me as if they know what they are talking about, have never met me, spoken to me, been in any of my containers. It's just based on assumptions, wrong interpretation of my words, triggers and prejudice.
It is because of women like this that there is such a sister wound in this industry. And one of the most beautiful feedbacks I get from the women in my world, is how healing it is to be in a genuine sisterhood, with no cattiness.
I stand by what I said and how I meant it. And if it did not land for you, that's okay, it was just not meant for you.
Enough time and energy has been leaked on this. I am just going to share a video of the Graduation of The Dominatrix Academy.
THIS is what I do. And this is not just words... you get to actually watch what I create with the women who work with me.
Thank you for reading.