Please if you can see my post say Hi, or quote this post with something.
Iβve been getting DMs of people asking why Iβve not been posting which isnβt so.
@iam_pweedypresh Meaningful and intentional communication is my love language. If we're not talking, it's very difficult for me to feel connected to you. Even if you genuinely love me, I may struggle to feel or recognize it because communication is one of the ways I experience love.
Because someone you don't care about cannot really hurt or betray you. Hurt and betrayal stems from care, love and affection.
If someone who's not your friend does something that hurts you, you accept it in good faith, walk away or try to get back at them.
But if someone you trust or care so much about does it, it breaks you, because you never expected it, you thought your sacrifice would be repaid with trust and loyalty, you cannot deliberately hurt them back and that keeps you deeply hurt.
Above all, love God.
Once you agree to get to know someone, please give them the attention they deserve. π
Don't go quiet for days.
Don't leave messages on read without a word.
Don't be half-present.
Ghosting someone who was excited to meet you is unkind. Treat people the way you'd want to be treated. β€οΈ