no one likes to hear this, but sometimes it really is your fault. Your life isn’t great because of the choices you made. You made bad decisions, and these are simply the consequences of your actions.
After losing a sibling or your parents or anyone close to you, nobody tells you that on a bright sunny day just driving down the road for no reason at all tears will start to fill up in your eyes out of nowhere. Nobody tells you that for minutes on end, your mind puts you back in that time and place of trauma and you feel it all over again. So much so that you have to literally snap yourself out of it, and shake it off and say to yourself "I'm ok"... there is no time limit on grief. Check on your people.
Cutting off people isn’t always about hate. Sometimes it’s just about different mindsets. Some drain your energy, some lack loyalty and some wear two faces. Not everyone wants to stay around that
Before you go to bed tonight, remember that there is no need to be stressed. You are okay. You have time to slow down and calculate your next steps. Your whole life is still ahead of you. You’ve got this.🩶