Lady: You raped me
Guy: No. I did not
Lady: Yes you did
Guy: When?
Lady: I don’t remember
Guy: uh?
Lady: “Rape is sexy”
Guy: This is insane
Lady: I’m suing you to prove it
Guy: ok
NY Jury: He didn’t rape you
Guy: Thanks
NY Jury: Now pay her $5,000,000.00
Guy: WHAT!?
"These are my pronouns. You will use them or you will not refer to me."
No ma'am that's not how this works. You cannot control how people refer to you. I will say whatever I want about you, and refer to you in whatever way I choose, and there is nothing you can do about it.