Small things that aren’t small for me.
1. Good morning texts
2. Voice notes
3. Unexpected texts
4. +4 messages
5. Showing interest
6. I heard that you like this
7. This reminds me of you
8. Unexpected calls
9. Remembering my birthday
10. Small updates even when busy
11. Small video clips
12. Sending songs that remind them of me
13. Laughing at my bad jokes
14. Have you eaten?
15. I saw this and thought of you
FOREVERRRRRR praying that i get my fairytale ending... the financial abundance, the family, the friends, the love, the happiness,etc. Just everything that i deserve
Girls 🎀
•Buy clothes that flatter you
•Deodorant
•Eat clean
•Exercise
•Find a face wash + moisturizer that actually works for your skin
•8-9 hrs of sleep
•Keep your brows together
•Keep your hair clean
•Keep hands + heels + lips soft
•Keep your nails trimmed
•Look in the mirror + remind yourself you’re beautiful 'cause YOU ARE !
•Perfume, always
•Exfoliate your feet + moisturize
•Regular Shaving
•Shower daily
•Body scrub 2x/week
•Poop daily
• wear SPF daily
I’m so bad at beauty maintenance.
I can’t keep up with skincare routines, lay my edges, or even do basic makeup on my own.
Every day, I’m thankful for natural beauty and clear skin.
I can confidently step out with my bare face while others are fully glammed up and still feel good about myself.😌
Thank you to the girls who always have extra pads in their purses and to the girls who help us check if we're stained.
Happy Menstrual hygiene day to youuu!
You’re making a mistake if you’re not doing anything for your partner simply because you feel you don’t have enough money yet.
It’s the little things that matter the most. Little is always better than nothing.
Habits I noticed in women who have genuinely healed
1. They stopped explaining themselves to people who had already decided who they were. They understood that clarity is not owed to everyone. Some people are not asking questions. They are building cases.
2. They have one standard they do not negotiate on. Not a list of rules. One deep knowing of what they will not accept. And that one knowing removes the exhausting daily decision of where their line is.
3. They feel the grief and they name it out loud to themselves. "I am sad today." "I am scared today." That one sentence creates just enough distance from the feeling to keep it from becoming their entire identity
4. They stopped trying to heal in the same environment that wounded them. They changed the inputs. The people. The conversations. The content they consumed. They understood that you cannot think your way out of a room you have never physically left.
5. They allowed the anger. They did not perform forgiveness before they had processed the rage. They let the anger do its sacred work of showing them what they would never allow again.