Victoria

Pre-K teacher & cat mom💗

[* @_lowkeyalfred]

I am fully convinced that one of the highest acts of self respect is choosing to walk away from a connection with someone who isn’t choosing you.

[Dear Self. @Dearme2_]

Overcommunicating is a form of begging.
They heard you. They simply dont care.

Stop it.

[timi @Timiii360]

grieving also sucks because nobody wanna hear about that everyday so you just gotta learn ways to suffer in silence 😩

[𝒥𝑅! @jr_mdg_]

My brain refuses to let me enjoy anything without also preparing me for how it could go wrong.

[feelings ღ @eternaltxts]

I'm an "i know you're lying, but go ahead" kind of person

[P @Pjustgotback]

Your actions told me to stop, so I did.

[liz🧚 @Lizformee]

The way i distance myself from people is probably one of the scariest part about me, bc i could love you to death and still never speak to you again.

[27. @dimvji]

maybe the goal was never to fix myself but to finally accept myself

[♤ @priest_099]

Y’all have become way too comfortable disrespecting and mistreating people, then expecting them to just “get over it” without any accountability. Too many genuine people end up hurt because someone’s pride is too big to offer a sincere apology, take responsibility for their actions, and make a real effort to change. Accountability isn’t just saying sorry, it’s showing through your actions that you’re willing to do better.

[Ϟ @XqiuzX]

after this, i'll be more silent.

[stressed @onlystresstoday]

normalize not trying harder when someone makes you feel unwanted

[A🇿🇦 @aifheli_]

As a person who is extremely sure about their feelings towards everything, I will always take uncertainty as rejection.

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

People don't abandon people they love.

They abandon people they were using or they needed for their own gain

[kemii @kemii99]

being emotionally present for someone who is emotionally unavailable to you is exhausting. you keep showing up. you keep trying. you keep pouring into someone who never really pours back.and after a while, you start to feel yourself disappear

[Ϟ @XqiuzX]

don't beg anyone for their time, people make time for who and what they want

[Akira @Akir_a997]

me and everyone who said they would be there for me

[𝕊ડs𝕥ꪗꪶꪖr ✰ @wtfisSss]

STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

It’s always the ones you’d do anything for who treat you like you’re nobody. They abuse your soft spot until it’s no longer there, mistaking your deep love for weakness.

[aerith. @earthboundcetra]

it’s almost cruel how the world doesn’t stop after something soul shattering happens. not even enough for you to catch your breath. and you have to wake up every morning, still trying to make it through the day and pretend said thing never happened. it’s fucking vile.