Y’all have become way too comfortable disrespecting and mistreating people, then expecting them to just “get over it” without any accountability. Too many genuine people end up hurt because someone’s pride is too big to offer a sincere apology, take responsibility for their actions, and make a real effort to change. Accountability isn’t just saying sorry, it’s showing through your actions that you’re willing to do better.
being emotionally present for someone who is emotionally unavailable to you is exhausting. you keep showing up. you keep trying. you keep pouring into someone who never really pours back.and after a while, you start to feel yourself disappear
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
It’s always the ones you’d do anything for who treat you like you’re nobody. They abuse your soft spot until it’s no longer there, mistaking your deep love for weakness.
it’s almost cruel how the world doesn’t stop after something soul shattering happens. not even enough for you to catch your breath. and you have to wake up every morning, still trying to make it through the day and pretend said thing never happened. it’s fucking vile.