Vagab0nd (Bound Together)

Blogging with my partner Mimsy, @TogetherBound, about our evolution of #BDSM and #kink.

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@Aella_Girl 💯 The synonym "ravishment play" works well because the core feelings here are incredibly common: the "aggressor" wants to show unbridled desire and the recipient wants to feel obsessively wanted.

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@Aella_Girl 💯 The synonym "ravishment play" works well because the core feelings here are incredibly common: the "aggressor" wants to show unbridled desire and the recipient wants to feel obsessively wanted.

[Aella @Aella_Girl]

to be extremely clear u guys: i throw cnc parties, I am into cnc, etc.
The first 'c' is important. I have been genuinely sexually assaulted and that was not pleasant, did not trigger the fetish. Being into the fantasy does not translate to being into the reality.

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@littleJeneee Lots! What’s good on your CV?

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@k8_lister nails it as usual. "People want different things" is fine advice, but the book that popularized love languages has some serious problems.

[The i Paper @theipaper]

"As far as I am concerned, 'love languages' carry all the academic authority of star signs or Hogwarts houses. What's worse, they are rooted in some seriously outdated and damaging ideas"

➡️ Read @k8_lister's latest column: https://t.co/PJFVXwKQ9c

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@wil_da_beast630 @JohnGGJ24 @AngelaBelcamino The data is messy. Centrist Europeans might have better sex lives than Right Wing Europeans, but may be beat by Very Right Wingers. Kinky people have better sex & sexual wellness and they tend to be liberal. Lib women want more sex, which obvs doesn't mean "worse sex..."

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@autogynephilic 🤣 The funny thing is almost no one is "normal"; practically everyone has paraphilic fantasies. So most people giving you a hard time about what you wear are total hypocrites.

https://t.co/nqaTPTN1vB

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@auntievice I have also observed this.

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

Any sex educators forum/chat out there, especially to talk about the latest Google algo changes? We can see that we're not the only ones getting destroyed in Google's search and spam filters.

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@k8_lister I know distractions are part of all work but I need to limit them or I will get stuck on an a distractions and ruin everything. So I schedule email checks twice per day and phone calls once per day. It’s more efficient anyway!

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@Aella_Girl I guess that left wingers are most likely to hard-R in the sack.

I think this because right wingers tend to be more interested in cuckolding—likely because fetishes sometimes imprint based their perceived trasngressiveness.

[Eduardo García-Molina @eduardo_garcmol]

I was unaware of the Medieval trend of depicting Aristotle being ridden and whipped by a dominatrix named Phyllis to show the power of female sexuality over male intellect. Having just finished a comp exam where I was subjected to too much Aristotle, I'm enjoying these.

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@raindegrey My favorite is, “If you publish this embarrassing plagiarized piece of garbage on your site, we will give you your very own worthless back link in our hideous shop!”

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

@niftierideology @Aella_Girl Viscerally of course I agree with you. I guess what makes me anxious is whether or not the mass buyers, who are more likely to lose everything than their targets, really understand that they’re participating in a pump & dump for some other hedge fund’s benefit.

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

This is kind of thing I usually learn about from @dirtytalkcast #Mozart #Primal

[Julia Galef @juliagalef]

TIL Mozart was a catboy

[Julia Galef @juliagalef]

TIL Mozart was a catboy

[Dirty Talk Podcast @dirtytalkcast]

In the latest bonus episode we look as the history of Jesus' Foreskin with author @davidfarley.

Find it where you get your podcasts or: https://t.co/qWTxKWE8fW

Full interview on our Patreon: https://t.co/bb7Uyki5s4

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

Research Recap: Is BDSM Just About Sex?

(Spoiler Alert: If a science article headline is a question, the answer is always, "No.")

[Mimsy (Bound-Together) @TogetherBound]

This month, @Vagab0und breaks down a new study on kinksters' attitudes toward BDSM and sex. Some of the findings might surprise you!

https://t.co/vyUtX68NJM

[Sasha Czarkowski 🇺🇦 @DivineOps]

Accidentally spelled it KinkedIn

Now pondering

[Vagab0nd (Bound Together) @Vagab0und]

The jerks attacking this independent sex worker for making BDSM content may as well be complaining about "ethics in video games journalism."