I might get attacked for this but if your man ain’t buying you expensive hair and bags .. but he’s still opening doors, making sure you eat, pulling out a chair for you, massaging your feet from a tired day, calming you down when you have anxiety, rubbing your back when you have cramps, holding you when you’re down, being honest, not cheating, being respectful and etc., You won! That's also princess treatment right there.
i have no desire to be rich so i can buy a rolex or a lamborghini.
i want to be rich so i can control my time and go to the gym at 3pm on a monday.
sit at a cafe and relax for an hour on a rainy afternoon.
so i can cook meals at home with fresh ingredients.
spend on my family and friends without worrying about a budget.
that's my idea of a rich life, not the fake consumerist idea shoved down my throat.