You really gotta be strong minded enough & and have the strength to get the fuck from round a nigga. Men will sit up in your face & act like they love you but really be draining you mentally, emotionally, financially, & physically. They'll study your weaknesses just to use them against you. They'll smile in your face while secretly praying on your downfall, blocking your growth, and feeding off your loyalty. Then they’ll guilt trip you when you try to leave & laugh with other mfs when you stay. That ain't love that's control and manipulation. Leave that ho! 💯
The 'Let Them' Theory
The let them theory says that if someone wants to act a certain way, let them. If they misunderstand you, let them. If they don't talk to you, let them, or if they treat you inconsistently, let them-not because it doesn't affect you, but because their actions already give you information about who they are and what they want. Instead of forcing things, you accept the reality that you can't control everything, like how someone feels, how they show up, or how you want them to choose you. By choosing to let them, you start to see things more clearly and learn to choose yourself, your standards, and your boundaries, helping you see people for who they truly are, not based on potential but on how they really are.
Until somebody clearly tells you they want to be with you and starts moving like it, keep your options open. Don’t let mixed signals, empty promises, or occasional attention make you unavailable to somebody who could be sure about you.
This may be one of the most powerful prayers I've heard.
"In Jesus' name, I rebuke every voice in my head that isn't Yours." Wow!
I think someone else needed to read that today too.