Please if you see me kiking with a man with abuse allegations, let me know!!!!!
I donโt need proof to distance myself
Donโt allow me clap for a man I should be stoning
I refuse to romanticize loyalty that requires absorbing someone else's misplaced anger. I'll stand beside you through your worst seasons, but the moment your hardship starts spilling onto my life, disrupting my peace, or becoming an excuse to mistreat me, we're done.
iโve noticed people do not like when youโre confident, theyโll rather break you down to your lowest and then pretend to care about your well being & mental state.
Weโve normalized the idea that women must always be pleasant, accommodating, and receptive, even in situations where theyโre trying to protect themselves. Nobody owes you their attention, warmth, or receptiveness. If you donโt get it, move on with your life.
You should always love and choose YOURSELF. A man is an addition, not the equation. A man will show you countless times that heโll always choose himself FIRST.
Living with hatred and jealousy for someone must be like hell.
I refuse to live like that,
I will always heal and take myself out of a situation before i let the hurt and pain consume me.