Or would they have helped once I figured it out for myself? I never really get the answer to these huh? I wish, at 31, I had a person that I felt safe enough with to ask these questions and open up about these things.
I used to have a bunch of girl friends, they really helped fill a void i felt as a genderfluid AMAB person. When a few got engaged and disappeared i was sad, when the rest did I was shattered. I love my cis amab boys but I have had no girl time at all for the last 10 years.
I don't think any of them knew about my gender questions. Hell I hadn't asked myself any yet at that point. I wonder if any of them figured out I was bi before I did? I just realized I didn't get to come out to any of them. We're deep south, would they have hated me?
Who wants an early 30s, 6ft, chubby, genderfluid, switchy, medicated, hopeless romantic? We can watch wrestling and smoke and do makeup. I'm funny sometimes too even