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@Cynthiaolagbaju@ODUNMADEIT Please go and check it out. Tell the doctor you clot during your period, I’m sure they’d ask you other questions, depending on your answers you’d go for a scan. But no matter what, Go for a SCAN.
@AirtelNigeria@SuleimanHa33071 Alright, kindly tell me why I recharged 800 yesterday but what showed on my account is 600, and now it’s 5naira when I only did smart cash data of 100 naira and I’ve not made any calls. What are you guys doing?
Anytime you catch yourself explaining basic human decency to a grown adult person, that's a huge red flag for sociopathy. Normal people don't need a seminar on decency, and it's not your job to be a morality instructor. The only thing you should be concerned with is getting the hell away from that person.
eldest daughters are built differently, because younger siblings meet us before we know who we are. we become example, warning, translator, emergency contact and keeper of the family version they were too young to remember. they may never know how often we took the first argument so their second one would be easier. we were children together, but only one of us was expected to know better.
When I care, I’m all in. I check on you, make time, fix what feels off, and give chances because losing the connection actually matters to me. But once I stop caring, all that effort disappears with it. I don’t argue, ask questions, or look for answers anymore. You get silence, distance, and a version of me that no longer cares how it ends.
The daughter who had to leave to become herself often discovers her personality in embarrassingly ordinary decisions.
She buys the bedsheet nobody at home would have chosen. Eats dinner at ten without explaining why. Leaves a cup in the sink and learns the world does not end. For years, preference felt too small to defend and too personal to expose. Living away teaches her that a self is built through hundreds of choices nobody else needs to approve.
I don’t spend time with just anybody anymore. If I choose to be around you, it’s because I genuinely want to be. My peace is worth too much for me to waste it on people I don’t genuinely care about. I’d rather be by myself than force conversations, fake connections, or be somewhere I don’t want to be. So if I make time for you, understand that it actually means something.