@Aridunu_jones@_apex_divine Exactly.
People need to learn compartmentalization.
It’s okay to say “ Colleague, School mate, lady from the gym, neighbour, street mate, acquaintance, business pal” etc
When you know the position you hold, you nor go dey stress yourself over friendship wahala.
We need to go back to the times where this nonsense wokeness of “all opinions are valid” doesn’t exist.
Because how can someone defend this sort of thing? Even if you don’t tell ALL your friends, you don’t have 2/3 close friends amongst this crowd?
Nawa!
I wouldn’t even walk out in this situation cause I’m not the only one there.
But from that moment onward, I’d know the position of the friendship as it appears.
Do you know how painful it is to be sharing yourself with someone & the other, doesn’t?
Anyday you decide to share it, I will wish you congratulations and keep it moving.
Wetin concern me?
But a close friend of mine?
Nearly half a year later?
Haha! Some of una nor know wetin be friendship and it really shows.
All this pretence of seeing nothing wrong is really fake. Everybody wants to wear the “idc” suit and it’s none of my business.
Do you lots even know what 5 months is?
If the person isn’t a close friend, I could care less tbh. If you like, no break the news.
Please help me quote, repost, tag anyone who can be of help. He couldn't go to school because of crisis, the school principal told them to just keep him in the house 😔😔😔.
This is Jazeel a 6 year old with three holes in his heart.
His mother sent his picture to me, see blood in his eyes, I cried when I saw the picture, because I've witnessed a scenario where this boy had a seizure 😭 I cried that day.
Read my chat with his mum this morning they need 8M for surgery. This is one of those times I really wished God blesses me the way I want 😭
@Wizarab10@osemagnum@Dr
YOU DO NOT OWE A TALKING STAGE LOYALTY.
That’s why y’all go through heartbreak with who you’re not even in a relationship with.
Till we are DEFINED I don’t owe you anything.
Demanding money for a new dress, wig and makeup just to show up for a first date has to be the most unrealistic and dumb Nigerian dating standard ever.
I agree.
There are several other options.
Do something fun and engaging so you can ACTUALLY get to know yourselves.
All that sitting across each other doesn’t really cut it. Everyone’s trying to put up their best performance.