this bird thing comes with a kind of smug certainty that i find fascinating. i’ve seen people call beyoncé and rihanna birds and my immediate reaction is always: who do you think you are? 🤣
It gets to a point where you’ve just got to stop correcting bad behavior and simply end the relationship.
Else, you’ll be in a constant loop of complain > reconcile > bad pattern repeats itself > complain > reconcile…
Never have a baby for a man. It doesn’t matter how much he begs. If you aren’t enthusiastically ready to be a mom, guard your womb. You’re at the whim of a man’s integrity and interest, and if he changes his mind, that child is still YOURS and deserves the best care.
I like flowers, I like books, I like quality time, I like words of affirmation, I like acts of service, I like to feel special. I want gestures. I want to feel appreciated.
Made a new friend, our daughters are the same age, I loved her company. She was going through something hard, so I handwrote her 1,000 words of original poetry/fiction, because that's how I show love...I'm a deeply creative person. She said she didn't have time to read it, called it weird, and didn't even take it. My soul left my body, reentered my body just to die again, and am now watching my own embarrassment from a small cloud above my house. Adult female friendship in your 30s is a horror movie and I keep volunteering to be the first victim.
@M4ur0_03 when they don't know how to suck and just slobber away at it with 0 pressure and friction it makes me feel like a nursery home patient getting a sponge bath
not to sound parasocial but they just make me realize that a good relationship is literally just being with your homie, cracking jokes and having sex from time to time 😭 like it’s really not that serious
This is free advice from an expensive psychologist. If you’re an anxious person, do everything for fun. Go to a job interview for fun. Submit documents for fun. Start a blog for fun. Anxiety feeds on importance. Don’t make everything a matter of life and death.