Vikas Gupta

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

' 𝐈 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐮𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐡 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫. 𝐖𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐝 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐡𝐢𝐦. 𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐌𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐚𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐝𝐚𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 . 𝐇𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐤𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐣𝐚𝐚𝐧 . 𝐈 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐦𝐲 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐢𝐦. 𝐓𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐲 𝐛𝐞𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐢𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐡𝐢𝐦 ,' 𝐬𝐚𝐢𝐝 𝐚 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐆𝐄𝐍 𝐙 girl at a conversation with more than 300 NSS leaders across Mumbai at the Ramanand DAV College Bhandup . Student after Student walked up to the stage sharing their joys and sorrows with all. In our conversation we touched the themes around building resilience, working as a team, managing studies and being aware of thoughts feelings , sensation and behaviour.

𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐨𝐭 .....𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐚 𝐁𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐦 𝐚𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐫 𝐯𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐬

The National Service Scheme (NSS) was launched on September 24, 1969, by the then-Union Education Minister Dr. V.K.R.V. Rao under the Ministry of Education (now Ministry of Youth Affairs and Sports) of the Government of India. Initially 37 universities were involved with 40, 000 students . Today it has spread across 700 + universities with 40 lakh + students. They are the largest social service organization in India . Their task : Nation Building .

𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐃𝐫 𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐚 𝐒𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐲 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐚𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞. 𝐇𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐟 𝐒𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐥 𝐒𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐞 𝐎𝐒𝐃 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐚𝐢 𝐔𝐧𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐲

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐚𝐦 𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 . 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐕𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐦 & 𝐁𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐚 𝐤𝐢 𝐣𝐚𝐢 !

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

The fangs are in the open ! The dirt and fifth mouthed in private are now spewed in the public domain . The repressed hatred towards a man who rose from the ranks after half a century of tireless and selfless work is mocked by the same narratives that kept us enslaved for a thousand years ! This lady represents the Jaichands and Mansings of yesterday who love dynasts and the dynasty of yesteryears and of today. The kurukshetra battle is on and the Kauravas will be defeated

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

God is a champion of Diversity,
Man is a champion of structure
Gen Z is not a homogeneous entity
All Gen Z r not the ones u saw recently at Jantar Mantar
The attention span of an entire populace has gone down and it's directly proportional to the time spent on gadgets and social media.
All Gen Z s do not spew filth all the time. All those who abuse are not GEN Z
I agree that RSS needs to have a revised vocabulary to communicate in the New age with not only the so called Gen Z but the entire country

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

#ShraddhaWalkar was chopped and murdered by #aftabpoonawala
& her body stuffed in the fridge. The court is on fast track since 2022. The #judge in this case has been very lenient to the murderer and gave leave of absence in the court to aftab for appearing in examinations , dental treatment, doctors appointment etc .There have been 200+ hearings. Shraddha s father and her grandmother died in the meanwhile. The defence has been delaying the case too. A constable who is a witness has been cross examined in 8 long hearings. A fast track case of a womans body has not yet been cremated as it is preserved as a witness. No closure for the family . Thank you @tejshreethought for your investigation
@ShivAroor
@ndtvindia @ndtv

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

𝐐 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐨 𝐭𝐨 𝐚 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐟𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐬

A Talk to him gently . If it fails let his best teacher or a best friend talk to him. Sometimes if s/he talks to someone who has been to a therapist before can work. A close relative can be a good influence. Sometimes asking him /her to go once and then decide can initiate a counselling process. Provide him with data and evidence from science that explains the beneficial effects of counseling. This also may motivate to seek assistance . 𝐁𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐚𝐧 𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐲, 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐚𝐬 , 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐟𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐬𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐚𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐭 , 𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦 , 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐚 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐦 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 , 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐫 𝐫𝐮𝐧 away from home rock the boat and see to it that he goes come what may. Here the family needs to be told of his state. Break the confidentiality then.
My dear friends , 𝐊𝐈𝐋𝐋 𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐌𝐄 , 𝐒𝐄𝐄𝐊 𝐇𝐄𝐋𝐏

@hrcollegemumbai

𝐐 𝐈𝐟 𝐈 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥 , 𝐚𝐦 𝐈 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐤 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥

A U need to have a safe space of good friends as a buffer in life. A girl friend or a boy friend can never be your only friend or the best friend. It is like a trapeze artist walking on the rope with a net below that will save his life if he falls. But at the same time do not flirt with girls indiscriminately and draw boundaries. During vulnerable moments do not cross the line. In the earlier part of your relationship your gf may get jealous but slowly this vanishes when trust and bonding improves. If your gf attempts to control you and invests all her emotions in a basket hanging around your neck it will get toxic . 𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐟 𝐢𝐬 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐮𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐛𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐤. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐬. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩

The sparkling eyes, glowing faces & happy smiles greeted me at the H R College in Mumbai where I had a conversation on " 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞 , 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 & 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 .

दिल खोलके ही नहीं, आँखे खोलके प्यार करो, मैंने जोर दिया।

𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐝𝐢𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐠𝐮𝐲
𝐍𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐊𝐈𝐋𝐋 𝐚 𝐆𝐔𝐘

I further added that , Family Problems are the main source of emotional distress among teenagers in India. Here I asked the boys and girls not to be mediators and encourage them to see a mental health professional.

I warned them that in distress one may jump into the arms of a wrong partner so it's good to share the distress with a favourite teacher , relative or a counselor who are largely non judgemental. I strongly emphasized that break ups will happen because love may have birth ,growth and death. It's important to celebrate break ups...This helps build mind muscles and improves resilience.

Many young believe that they can help parents after they complete their education and fetching jobs. This is not true and the energetic boys and girls should do little things and help their parents in the kitchen , getting groceries and taking care of them when they are ill. 𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐢𝐧 𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐡 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬

𝘌𝘹𝘤𝘦𝘳𝘱𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘮𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘨𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘗𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘱𝘢𝘭 𝘗𝘰𝘰𝘫𝘢 𝘙𝘢𝘮𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘢𝘯𝘪 & 𝘝𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘗𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘱𝘢𝘭 𝘙𝘢𝘯𝘪 𝘛𝘺𝘢𝘨𝘪 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘷𝘪𝘵𝘦

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

𝐒𝐡𝐨𝐛𝐡𝐚𝐚 𝐃𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐠𝐞𝐝 𝐦𝐮𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫 𝐛𝐲 𝐒𝐢𝐲𝐚 𝐆𝐨𝐞𝐥 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐮𝐧𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞. She is entitled to her opinion but this is outlandish and supporting murders and murderers are a new trend by the Page 3 socialite .

But then I am not surprised . 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐀𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐚𝐬 ' 𝐦𝐮𝐫𝐝𝐞𝐫 ' 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐀𝐪𝐮𝐚 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐌𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐚𝐢 . She was critical of murdering trees but she supports the murder of a fiancee by a prospective bride ...

The delay in launching the Metro 𝐜𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐌𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐬𝐡𝐭𝐫𝐚 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐱 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐫𝐨𝐫𝐞𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 .

Later after the Aqua Line metro started its operation , she was all praise for the comfort after being invited to experience the travel on the train by the Maharashtra Govt. 𝐒𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐩𝐡𝐨𝐭𝐨𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐚 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐨𝐫 "𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫" 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧 "𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐥."

What the hell is this ?

In one more controversial statement recently 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 , ' 𝐁𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐚 𝐤𝐢 𝐣𝐚𝐢 ' 𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐠𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐨𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐮𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐛𝐲 𝐀𝐫𝐣𝐮𝐧 𝐑𝐚𝐦𝐩𝐡𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐟𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

In her column, titled "Why Arjun Rampal shouting 'Bharat Mata Ki Jai' should worry Bollywood," De argued that this was not a spontaneous display of patriotism. She suggested it was part of a larger, politically driven trend in Bollywood where actors are aligning with official briefs rather than natural storytelling. How does she know ?

Well these incidents and the flip flop by the well known socialite and author on many occasions and her support for the murder of Ketan Aggarwal can be termed shocking

Copy cat murders are allegedly reported to be occurring after Sonam Raghuvanshi and Sia Goel's episodes . 𝐇𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐱𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐝𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐮𝐞𝐥 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐞 !

All this is sad and very very unfortunate

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

Q: 𝐂𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐧 𝐝𝐨 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 ?
A Begin in school and families. A single child does not know how to share. Begin young. Teach little ones to give what they love the most to under privileged children ( a maids son ) early in life . Encourage such actions in schools. Impressions formed early last through out life. Joy of giving is partnership with God. In my first days of mental health work I met an interesting man Jagdish Kacholia. He said that he has a partnership with God. Out of every rupee he earns right from day 1 he donates some amount to a good cause

Q: 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 help a
𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝟕𝐲𝐫 𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐰𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐞
A : Some kids write slowly and when they are reprimanded they get paralysed. A few have difficult handwriting ( not dysgraphia) . It can be poor motor coordination . Let that be. Again criticism stops them from using the pencil. Distracted kids too don't write. Check for Hyperactivity and A.D.H.D. Not wanting to write could be an early sign of dyslexia. Let a child see a Psychologist. Take oral tests and do not be punitive. One of my sons never wrote and used one note book for all subjects. He was never punished by a school that understood. He has dyslexia and today he is doing well
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Forget you are a teacher ! 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬 . 𝐊𝐢𝐝𝐬 𝐥𝐨𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞. 𝐀𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫.

A centripetal teacher is a great teacher where kids flock around them. A centrifugal teacher is like a Police man where kids run away while seeing them. 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 , 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐱𝐢𝐦𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐝𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐲.

This closeness between a teacher and a child enhances life long bonding and learning . The classroom is the teachers karma bhoomi ..

CEOs are born in schools and families and not always MBA schools , where empowered teaching & parenting is practised

𝐈 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐌𝐨𝐡𝐚𝐦𝐦𝐞𝐝 𝐒𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐟 who did not his sons body after being attacked by animals . Since then he began doing the last rites of unclaimed bodies. He paid the last respects to approximately 25,000 of them free of cost, and was awarded the Padma Shree.

𝐀𝐥𝐬𝐨 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐤𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐡 𝐇𝐚𝐪𝐮𝐞 ...He looked for an ambulance for his mother when she was sick. He could not get one and his mother died . From that day he started a bike ambulance service and helped more than 8000 sick people to reach on time free of cost. He too got the Padma Shree.

When kids respect our heroes , their self belief is built and from that belief they feel proud of their nation ..... subsequently the foundations of self confidence is developed

𝐄𝐱𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐩𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐥𝐚𝐫𝐠𝐞 𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐚𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐢 𝐅𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐥 𝐚𝐭 𝐌𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐫𝐚 . 𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐬𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 Ranjini Krishnaswamy a 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫 & 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐚𝐥 𝐌𝐬 𝐑𝐚𝐣𝐧𝐢 𝐏𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐥

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐦𝐨𝐛 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐬 𝐢𝐟 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐚 𝐦𝐚𝐣𝐨𝐫 𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐠𝐨𝐯𝐭 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥𝐬 ...𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐚𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐥𝐬𝐞𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞

@MoHFW_INDIA
@JPNadda

The difference is 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐛 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐮𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐰𝐚𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐚 𝐌𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐎.𝐏.𝐃 𝐢𝐧 𝐦𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐚𝐢.

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@ETNowSwadesh

The numbers have multiplied across the last many years. And 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐩𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐌𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐎𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐫. A professional who may have to work for 36 hours at a stretch during their emergency days.

The Medical , Surgical , Gynecological , Pediatric , Orthopedic Residents face the biggest burnt. 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐢𝐥 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐧𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐚𝐧𝐲 𝐬𝐥𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐨𝐝.

This ordeal is normalised and 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐚 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬 𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐬 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐞.

The numbers of the poor are increasing though the Government has been shrieking that 25 crore Indians have been removed from the poverty line. I don't dispute this. But when many are removed more follow and gravitate into the poverty trap.

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐜𝐨𝐬𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠. 𝐀𝐲𝐮𝐬𝐡𝐦𝐚𝐧 𝐁𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩𝐬 𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡. They cannot seek private treatment and have to rely on Govt hospitals .

A data point that is important and connected here is that 31 % 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚 ( 𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐍𝐂𝐑𝐁 ) 𝐟𝐢𝐠𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐰𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐥𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐞𝐫𝐬. 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝟐𝟕.𝟓 % 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫.

R.M.O s are young men and women who also come with emotional baggage from the past. 𝟑𝟑.𝟓 % 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐬𝐮𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐮𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐲 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐲𝐞𝐚𝐫 𝐛𝐞𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐬 𝟑𝟏.𝟗 %. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐑.𝐌.𝐎 𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐨𝐟 𝐜𝐨𝐥𝐥𝐚𝐩𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐠 𝐭𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐥𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬.

And do we take care of of our young Doctors. The number of R.M.O s are less and more are not appointed. The gap between the earnings of the Consultant and the RMO s is big. They are on the front line punched and beaten up by irate patients and relatives for no reason.

This situation has to be rectified . They should be working in shifts like nurses and doctors all over the world 8 to 10 hours only

So the care for the poor suffers. So 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐞𝐠 𝐢𝐟 𝐚 𝟏𝟎𝟎 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐲 𝐢𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐚 𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐡 𝐨𝐟 𝐑𝐌𝐎 𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦. The toil takes a toll on the interpersonal empathy both between doctors and with pts and families. Recently a RMO had dengue and was sick. His peers demanded that he return in 3 days.

The care for the poor is compromised this. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞𝐭𝐲 𝐧𝐞𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐥𝐮𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐢𝐝𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧. Private players are salivating and waiting to take over the municipal hospitals. The municipal schools are handed over to N.G.O s. The NGO appoints their own teachers at meagre salaries this compromising with the quality of teaching . The 7 th pay commission salaries are not given

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐃𝐨𝐜𝐭𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥 .

𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐦 𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐩 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 , 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬

https://t.co/V3XXV54MkS

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

I am very upset and sad that you come late for your duties ...shared a nursing supervisor to a nurse

She continued coming late , and then the nursing supervisor shared, ' I am very upset , sad and angry that you continue coming late . I am sorry but I will have to relieve you of your duties '

The nurse who was asked to leave was not upset at the supervisor ....She did not feel humiliated or insulted ....The supervisor shared her feelings . No adjectives or sarcasm were hurled at the nurse

' Inclusive Communication ' is the theme I shared at the ' All India Catholic Guild of Hospitals conference ' attended by nurses , doctors and others at St Pius College Mumbai .The title of the conference was
' Human Dignity and Peace as the Heart of Compassionate Medical Care'

How does one bring 'Peace in the Hospitals ' was what I spoke on

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐑.𝐀.𝐌 𝐩𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐨𝐩𝐡𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐲

𝐑 = 𝐑𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 : 𝐈𝐟 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐦𝐞𝐦𝐛𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐟𝐟 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐤𝐞𝐲 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐩𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐠𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐞𝐝. As u enter the hospital one greets the security guard , the middle level executive and the CEO with the same respect...one has arrived. This needs effort. The hierarchies entwined in our minds out of learning and modelling needs to be shattered. The fact that each human being is important has to be weaved in our neurons ! One may not like the face , food habits , caste , religion or other aspects yet one needs to accept that Providence has brought us together and accepting the person exactly as a/he is should be the norm. This needs practice and self talk that enters into the crevices of our brains slowly....conflicts may arise but constant reminders of this fact .....will calm us down . Respect is more important than love in every aspect of life

𝐀 = 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧: 𝐄𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐲𝐞𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐟𝐟 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐧..𝐀𝐛𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐧𝐭 appreciation of such acts by peers , superiors improves bonding and team work . Feeling good about oneself on good days and enjoying success is very vital. When we err or on difficult days support each other and help each other as a team to improvise. This helps bonding and build a strong team l. 𝐆𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐚𝐦 𝐁𝐮𝐝𝐝𝐡𝐚 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐤𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 ' 𝐌𝐮𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐚 ' 𝐢.𝐞. 𝐬𝐲𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐣𝐨𝐲 𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬. 𝐈𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐮𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐦 𝐨𝐟 𝐣𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐉𝐨𝐲𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬. This is a workshop I conduct regularly !

M = All the employees in a hospital bring a lot of emotional baggage from their family ,community , nation and the earth . The images of missiles flying all over has not disappeared from our memory bank . Family worries , financial issues , long working hours hurt us. Exercises on 𝐌𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐟𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐠𝐚 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐕𝐢𝐩𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐚𝐧𝐚 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚 𝐦𝐮𝐬𝐭 . 𝐌𝐚𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐡𝐢 𝐏𝐚𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐣𝐚𝐥𝐢 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐁𝐡𝐚𝐠𝐰𝐚𝐧 𝐆𝐚𝐮𝐭𝐚𝐦 𝐁𝐮𝐝𝐝𝐡𝐚 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬𝐭 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 . I was happy to see many hands going up when I asked the question , ' How many practice yoga or Vipassana. Mindfulness dissolves the negative energy in the brain. Mindless Compassion hurts the process and causes harm to the peace in the hospital

BUT ONE HUGE COMMENT FROM ME : PAY THE NURSES WELL AS MUCH AS GOVT HOSPITALS PAY NURSES...DONT OVER WORK THEM PLEASE

Excerpts of my conversation at the National Conference or the CNGI Nurses Guild of India,

𝐆𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐅𝐫 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐩𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐅𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞 !

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

https://t.co/Xr5wUNLY8H

@thaver_mohamed asks probing qs in this interview: A must read

Social Disgruntlement is on the rise !
Disconnection and Alienation are at its peak

What r the answers

@IndianExpress

[Soumya @SoumyaPrab0908]

Thank you so much sir! 🙏

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

When the JJ ACT HAS kept provisions for punishing those between 16 to 18 for heinous crimes if he qualified for the same
what is the jumla for bringing down the age for sex by consent to 16.
This petition is perverse , illogical and harmful ! By this argument then they will argue for the age of marriage to be reduced to 16. Drinking age may be asked to be brought down. POCSO cases need to be dealt with rationale and promptness. We don't want a country where girls are raped at 9 , 11, 14 or 16

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Absolutely the wrong choice ! What is wrong with @MoHFW_INDIA ! She stood with the woke brigade of @jnu. Her cannabis controversy is questionable ! It's akin to a family that bends backwards to invite a local goon for a family function and forgets their own kith and kin

Is the ministry suffering from the
#stokholmsyndrome

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A parent talks to his teenager studying in an engineering college

Dear son

I was angry yesterday when I scolded you for scoring less in an exam. I suddenly realized my mistake ! I remembered instantly that we had given birth to you years ago and you came out of your mother's womb without a marksheet ! You did not boast that you scored well by behaving nicely for 9 months. We gave birth to you and not your marksheet . I realised immediately that ' When a child is in distress hug him a little longer and a little stronger ' ! I am.aware that you can never get a new dad or a mom from Amazon or Flipkart. We need to come close , heal you and find an answer ! Earlier we would be indifferent to you , walk away , not talk to you for days and were so wrong . This can break the heart of any teenager. You always shared bad news early and we remember when you shared with us about your break up on the same day. You wept and we consoled you. You made a very insightful statement a week later ! If one falls in love at this age, a break up is more often common ....it is almost inevitable and you laughed it off ! You were so upset when you did not get the subject of your choice COMPUTER SCIENCE. This lasted for some time and you later realised that you need to do your best wherever you are and grab whatever opportunity you get. Gathering cumulative knowledge...across time and loving what you do are the sure recipe of success . Enjoy your studies dear but some times we may get irrationally upset occasionally but remember rarely that our intentions are honest but our methods are wrong ...forgive us then !

Love

Parents

Excerpts of my conversation with VJTI students packed in the Shanmukananda Hall , Mumbai recently

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈𝐧𝐬𝐩𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐬 𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 ?

1 Self motivated to teach
2 Teaching is seen as a mission
3 Teaching is seen as meaning in life
4 Teachers share stories not glories
( 𝐌𝐈𝐂𝐑𝐎 𝐄𝐗C𝐄𝐑P𝐓𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐀 𝐓𝐀𝐋𝐊 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝟏𝟓𝟎𝟎 𝐊𝐈𝐃𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐕𝐉𝐓𝐈 𝐀𝐓 𝐒𝐇𝐀𝐍𝐌𝐔𝐊𝐀𝐍𝐀𝐍𝐃𝐀 𝐇𝐀𝐋𝐋 : 𝐒𝐄𝐏 𝟏𝟔 )
5 Teachers conversing with students
6 Teachers who experiment with concepts
7 Teachers who reach out to every student
8 Teachers who practice emotional equity
9 Teachers who have NARMADA GAPPA
10 Narmada Gappa=fireside chat in hostels
11 Teachers who help difficult students
12 Teachers who are challenged by students
13 Teachers who stand with kids who fail
14 Teachers who help stressed kids
15 Teachers who hold parents meetings
16 Teachers who accept their mistakes
17 Teachers who don't talk politics
18 Teachers who don't gossip
19 Teachers who practice humility
20 Teachers who are compassionate
21 Teachers who share feelings
22 Teachers who love themselves
23 Teachers who are team players
24 Teachers who help other teachers
25 Teachers who have a sense of humour
26 𝐓𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐤𝐢𝐝𝐬 !

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Is Donald Trump mentally unwell ? Every influencer, opinion makers and others call him I'll and put my name in the X post asking me to treat him !

Stop this nonsense! There is a book written on his alleged mental state . But that's not the point !

Politicians blame each other for being mentally ill when they disagree with each other . This is the level of political discourse in India

Leave the mentally ill alone . They have dignity and self respect. Diagnosis of mental illness cannot be doled out or handed over easily. It requires a rigorous approach!

Research shows that normal people inflict a million times more emotional violence and physical violence. So guys stop bringing mental health slang all the time. Do u call guys ..u have stroke , u have uncontrolled hypertension . No we don't !

By the way

TRUMP STABBED US ON THE CHEST

BIDEN STABBED US ON THE BACK !

They are the same ! And what is this bilateral friendship ?

Ghanta ! . Both supported Pakistan against us ! Biden was enmeshed with the deep state ! His ambassador to India met all the opposition parties before the election in 2019 .Trump also is with forces inimical to us

The USA does not want India to Prosper. They supported the terrorists and Osama gave them 9/11. They will give them another and another . The beast will never learn !

So leave the mentally ill alone . Don't fall for the rage trap !

Remember

TRUMP IS STABBING US ON THE CHEST
BIDEN AND THOSE BEFORE STABBED US ON THE BACK

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

In Medical College we loved teachers who taught us , fed us and laughed with us

They were not formal mentors but they actually were

Mentoring is not a transactional process but a transformative process

Both Mentors and Mentee grow together

Teachers today need to transact curriculum and life ....both interwoven !

Mentoring is a humanistic process

Mentor is a chimney , a banyan tree , sherlock Holmes , a coach , a friend , a fatherly figure , a motherly figure , a healer ....& Many avatars in different situations

Mentors need not be mindlessly kind and always wear their emotions on their sleeve. They should be aware of the kindness flaws

Induction needs to be effective with mental health screening continued periodically in an environment of fun and openness. The Dean , faculties & Family should join in the screening

Mentors Should hunt in pairs : two working together with their mentees

The National Medical Commission has mandated mentoring in medical schools and informally mentioned that if a student dies of self harm they may be questioned . Mentors Should not feel a sword hanging around the neck

They need to focus on WELLNESS , ILLNESS & CRISIS INTERVENTIONS

They need to be aware of mental health issues and recognise signs of distress , disorder early

Excerpts of my conversation with teachers from medical school , school of dentistry , school of nursing , school of physiotherapy and others across the country this Monday organised by Indian Psychiatry Society & A.H.P.E. Gratitude to Dr Himanshu Pandya & Dr Anusha Prabhakaran .

Listen to the full conversation on

https://t.co/tyTNJshxmm

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Stop your deep state politics
Do not think you rule the world
Respect all countries
India is an old culture
It has survived the Dutch
It has survived the Portuguese
It has survived the Mughals
It has survived the British
It will survive u
Let your actions match ur words
Stop luncheon meetings with terrorists
Stop toppling Govts.
Learn to behave first

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https://t.co/vHK2qyuOOk

Brilliant piece by @priyartist

India is in the middle of a mental health epidemic ! Our response has been pathetic & cold

India is on the edge with #violence & #suicide has increased

It's time for a mental health movement with each one of us involved
@narendramodi
@PMOIndia

We cannot depend on the Govt Hospitals to herald a revolution alone

A robust private - public partnership is a must

@TeleMANAS_Apex
@mheduNIMHANS

[Harish Shetty : @DrHarish139]

There has been an increase of heart attacks among corporate employees recently ! Every such event is attributed to stress but that is not true !

𝐍𝐄𝐖 𝐑𝐄𝐒𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐂𝐇 𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐒 𝐓𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐓𝐎𝐗𝐈𝐂 𝐁𝐎𝐒𝐒𝐄𝐒 𝐂𝐀𝐍 𝐂𝐀𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐇𝐄𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐄!

I have come across many such events in India ! A happy young man has a change in boss and after a few months...He has a cardiac event !

𝐑𝐞𝐜𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐄𝐮𝐫𝐨𝐩𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐞𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐞𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐨𝐲𝐞𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 !

𝐈 𝐬𝐞𝐞 𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥.𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐢𝐦𝐞𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐫𝐲 ! Young guys have succumbed or the fist shaped organ has suffered !

𝐈𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐔𝐒𝐀 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐢𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐬 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐟𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐝 𝐚𝐧 𝟖𝟎 % 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐢𝐝 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐡 𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞

These monsters have forgotten their education in their MBA....Is it a systemic phenomenon or a consequence of chasing numbers , I do not know !

Share and Inspire works
Scare and Inspire kills

A few manage such misguided or the devils in smart jackets ! 𝐓𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐫 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐢𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐫𝐚𝐲𝐬 !

Some remain quiet and believe that they are buddhas but they are not ! Being quiet does not help !

𝐇𝐮𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐬 .....𝐬𝐞𝐞𝐩 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐥𝐨𝐰𝐥𝐲 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐜𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬𝐥𝐲!

Research shows that smoking and alcohol may add to the vulnerability!

So if u have a toxic boss ....communicate with her / him .....or fix him / her or leave .

( 𝐀𝐝𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐩𝐮𝐭𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐥𝐞 : 𝐀𝐬𝐬𝐨𝐜𝐢𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐨𝐟 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐕𝐢𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐝𝐢𝐨𝐯𝐚𝐬𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐀𝐦𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐔𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐞𝐫𝐬 : 𝐅𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬 𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚 𝐍𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐒𝐮𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐲 ( 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟒 )