Storytelling Family Drama…
Many years ago, a young lady found herself living a life she never imagined.
To survive, she got involved in hookups and even lived in a hotel in Nnewi, where men come to pick them up.
Eventually, she found her way to Spain. Life gradually changed.
Years later, while visiting London, she met a man. They became friends. Friendship became courtship.
Courtship became marriage.
But before she said “I do,” she did something many people are too afraid to do.
She told him everything.
She told him about her past in Nigeria. She told him how she survived in Spain.
She hid nothing.
The man listened quietly.
Not the edited version. No filters.
No “I’ll tell him after the wedding.” The whole story.
Then he said something she never expected:
“Thank you for trusting me enough to tell me the truth.”
He married her anyway.
Three years later, one of the men from her past resurfaced.
His mission?
He threatened to expose her unless she paid him £100,000.
She looked at him and probably thought,
“You’re about three years late.”
Wrong address. 😂
She simply turned to her husband and said,
“Remember everything I told you before we got married? One of those men has returned.”
Her husband wasn’t shocked.
He wasn’t angry.
He wasn’t confused.
There were no emergency explanations.
No sleepless nights trying to invent stories.
Together, they went to the police.
The blackmailer was arrested and charged.
Imagine if she had hidden her past.
The blackmailer wouldn’t have been asking for £100,000.
He would have been charging interest because he knew he owned the secret.
And would keep coming back as blackmailers do.
Many people think honesty destroys relationships.
A secret you hide from your spouse can become someone else’s business.
Truth may make the wrong person walk away before marriage. That’s ok.
But it also prevents the wrong person from controlling your marriage afterward.
It destroys manipulation. Often, it destroys blackmail.
It destroys fear.
But a hidden truth can destroy a marriage after it begins.
Sometimes the greatest wedding gift you can give your future spouse…is a past they already know.
Some of the strongest marriages begin with two people brave enough to tell the whole truth… before they promise forever. ❤️
Dear girlfriends,
Each time you visit your boyfriend & you cook for him.
Please make sure that you eat together from one plate.
If he finishes the food with you all the time, he is not showing good signs of a selfless man.
It doesn't matter how delicious your food is.
End.
You're free to argue this, but let me say it.
The best marriage to have as a man is a marriage where:
1. You're more educated and enlightened than your wife.
2. You're richer than your wife.
3. You're older than your wife.
4. Your wife is not from a family that depends on you for their survival.
5. Your wife is not religious and seldom keeps friends.
6. Your wife is a housewife or works where she still has time to be a present mother.
7. Your wife is from a stable home where the parents are still together, but it's not her mother that is the main provider or the one that calls the shot.
8. All her sisters (especially elder sisters) are married.
9. She spends time to teach the children and takes pride in their achievement.
10. She doesn't deprive you of sex and makes sure that her vagina and home is always clean for you.
11. She doesn't have an ex or she doesn't keep in touch with her exes.
12. She doesn't enable you as her husband and wishes to push you further than she has gotten to.
13. She puts you on your toes and you cannot afford to fail her because of the value that she brings to your life.
14. She knows that you have cheated on her, but turns a blind eye, as long as you're not rubbing it on her face and you put your family first in all thy doings.
15. She knows who you are, but will never use your secrets against you. And even if the marriage doesn't work out, she'll always speak good of you because she believes and trusts that you'll always speak good of her.
End.
Always remember...
Men are the PRIZE.
And women are the PRICE.
There is nowhere a woman is mandated to spend any money during her wedding.
But the man must spend to marry his wife.
She positions herself and wins the PRIZE through femininity, respect and faithfulness.
While he shows love through leadership, protection and provision (PRICE).
That is why the bride is always the happiest during wedding ceremony.
Because she is the winner of the PRIZE.
Good morning.
I just saw a video that is making me go cray cray.
A Nigerian married woman in Canada with her two kids, came online to say that she has been in Canada for 3 years without her husband.
And that the only condition for her to bring her husband to Canada is for him to do a video and post on social media, promising that he would not cheat on her or he would die.
The useless husband did the video and posted it online swearing that he will never cheat on her if she brings him to Canada.
Poverty is a bastard.
Foolish man.
End.
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~ @NizaarKinsella
Today, being my son's 10th birthday, I called him into my room. After praying for him, I spent over 30 minutes talking with him.
My wife walked in, and I told her to leave the room because I wanted to speak to my son alone.
I told him many things that I know he will not understand, but I know he won't forget them when he becomes an adult man.
My son remained completely silent throughout. I could see that he was quite uncomfortable, fearing that I was angry with him from the tone of my voice.
It wasn't the usual soft daddy's voice, but a firm one without any high pitch.
I told him to be looking into my eyes as I was speaking and that he should use his two hands to pull his ears.
Finally, I told him that no man would ever wish for him to be better than them, except I, his father.
And that he must make sure that he protects his elder sister and respects his mother.
This is what my late father did to me when I turned 10. By then, I had no mother in sight and received no birthday wishes, love, or care from her.
Anytime I just wish to think about my life, the words of my late father always play in my mind.
They always serve as guides, and quite a lot of them, I have used them to teach here.
It's always easier to remember what you were told or warned not to do as a child than when you're an adult.
Many things my late father said at the time didn't make much sense to me.
But today, they do.
So this is why I chose today to speak with my son in a way I never have before.
Lastly, I told him that he would make mistakes in life, but that I'll always be there to support him, helping him stand up and become a better person.
After I was done, he hugged me and went back to his PS5.
Thank you all for your best wishes and prayers for him.
End.