I was in an oil firm for 8 years, chevron to be precise between 2010 and 2019
Nigeria happened to us and 18 of us were laid off for no reason
I built 2 houses for my family
After I lost my job I went back to the house I built for family
Fast forward to few years ago I left Christianity and chose islam
My family pushed me out of my own house simply because I built it for family
They denied me access to my 2 houses
I left heartbroken
started all over and I now i am a remote worker for both UK and US companies
Life can always start all over even at 50 bro
Don't give up
One thing adulthood teaches quickly is this:
Nobody is coming.
At some point, you realise there is no secret meeting where life gets easier.
No magical age where all the answers arrive.
No day where responsibility disappears.
You simply get better at carrying it.
The bills still come.
The uncertainty still exists.
The setbacks still happen.
But so do the opportunities.
So does the growth.
So does the wisdom.
The goal is not to wait for life to become easier.
The goal is to become stronger, wiser and more prepared.
That is what maturity really is.
โTaking back an ex is an attestation of stupidity . Whenever you take back an ex you are letting the universe know you are a really stupid personโ
- man gives reason why taking back an ex is a very stupid and wrong move