@lichthauch judging people for their shallowness comes from a place of desperately wanting to be better than someone else (which makes you less).
Eventually you'll learn on your spiritual path that we are all One. And you can love everyone deeply without judgement.
My biggest problem is that everything has always come relatively easy for me. Got good grades without learning a lot. Quite good at sport. Made friends easy. And now everything that takes serious, serious effort, like starting a business, running marathons, etc. take too much discipine. it's working against me.
detaching is great advice. But only after you let it hurt. Whatevery you push away and force to not-feel, will come back eventually.
To feel the full scope of your feelings is the only way you can transfrom the pain into something better: life lessons and wisdom. then detach
@SomoinaKapeen lust is the easiest sin to give in to, especially nowadays. open instagram: p*rn. Tiktok? P*rn. snapchat? all p*rn. The mermaids are everywhere, singing to you their song. One has to be incredibly strong to resist the tempations
@AugustusDelano i might be a big social media hater (especially instagram/tiktok) but i think almost all of the world's problems nowadays (unhealthy people, f-up dating market, no faith) stem from the instant gratification algortihms designed by big tech.
I went through a lot of dark periods to become this light. At that moment, I hated these periods of sadness and helplessness. But now I am so grateful for them because it made me understand so much about myself and the world.
The state of presence and an open heart feels so obvious and natural and normal (and it is, as our innate state), that it can make one forget how much work it took to arrive to the present moment
@OtitoNosike I think this is one of the best things about getting older. When I was 16 I was terrified of being different. Now, at 28, I never even think of myself that way.
I wish I learned it sooner, but better late than never i guess
@isjuustadream When I was a bit younger I'd constantly judge people I passed by. One day I realized how destructive my thoughts were.
I flipped the script and tried to name a positive thing about them. It's crazy how more humane you become yourself when you do that.
@BonesawMD even worse is music. Pop music nowadays is all about simp guys not getting the girl and crying about it. It's rewiring every weak guy's brain. And it's everywhere. The radio, the gym, the bar. avoid at all costs
@thedulab I like to be the guy that encourages my friends. "Yeah you got this bro". "I knew you could pull it off". Men are so depraved of support. And now my whole friends group is supporting each other all the time. It's a beautiful thing to see.
@TheOracleReadsU The best way to start vibrating high is to avoid vibrating low. doomscrolling, watchting tv shows every night, eating junkfood... It secretly lowers your vibration.
I don't talk to my friends a lot about God. I don't want to be that guy that's unbearable. But when they talk about how they believe in noting, not in God, not in Soul, I think to myself: man you miss out on so much
@chaseharris98 Isn't this because of social media (specifically Instagram reels and Tiktok) programming all the women (and men) how to behave? No one has unique interests anymore. It's all borrowed from SM.
I prayed for a lot of good friends I got them.
I prayed for a lot of love and I got it.
I prayed for a lot of things and most of them I received. And what I didn't receive was for the best. God knows what he is doing.
@theralkia How do you recognize high consciousness people? I usually watch how seriously they are about "important" world events. And how "important"they think they are.
@BlondB00 You can even make a soulless job worth it if you put your whole soul in it. How you do one thing is how you do anything. It's a cliché because it's true. And the more your resist the cheap entertainment, the more "alive" your soulless job becomes.
@isabelunraveled Intellect is cool, up to a point. I notice that the more I can feel myself, the more I can feel others, and the more I can others make them feel.
The more I live from my heart and not from my head the more I spiritually connect to others.
@theJayAlto It's so easy to spot the flaws in others while for our own flaws, we have perfect excuses.
I think it takes a certain level of consciouness to tell yourself: I am not as good as I think I am.
and an enormous level of courage to say: And I will be better.