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Ah, what a tweet to end my 12 years with no pinned tweet...
] oh my god. hey retweet this for awareness maybe because notifs aren't even broken. they silently turned on these settings for EVERYONE. Notifications > Preferences > Push notifications and then make sure it's on "Everyone" and not "Tailored for you" on anything.
Sometimes I think about how absolutely apoplectic with rage Archer would be to see me now; Vegetarian, agender and dressing however I like regardless of respectability, working a job that helps people instead of harms them.
Being your truest self is sometimes the best revenge.
I also feel like some good context would be that the reason he was commenting on breast size at all is because he's talking about going in for top surgery and was saying the phrase with envy, and that he seems to believe me to be a girl.
I could have told that story better.
So. I have a habit of not correcting people more than once when they use the wrong pronouns unless we're friends. It's usually not worth the trouble, and being misgendered doesn't bother me much as a pronoun that *really* fits does not exist for me. Anyway.
I want to clarify that he is actually a decent sort, just rough around the edges and a little slow on the uptake. He's not transphobic in the least, simply not very observant.
@AurumMeddle [TXT] Is this your style/something you would enjoy? Also don't send this to Reine, she's asking me for opinions on whether to get it for you.
[Cue a vibrant metallic shiny-scizor green]
@AurumMeddle [txt] Decision by committee. If it's going to be a group thing, who aside from our usual do we want to bring? Do we want to extend the offer to some of Reine's model friends? Some of my costuming and literature friends?
@AurumMeddle [Txt] I would be up for that, so long as the pubs in question have non-alcoholic cocktails. I don't mind getting a little buzzed but me fully drunk would be fun for no one.
@AurumMeddle [Txt] Hmm... We've done mostly cozy get togethers, so let's do something that sees us going multiple places? Oh, costumes. That's the part I'm the worst at. I haven't had a good costume since I cosplayed as Marceline. I was, what, ten?
@AurumMeddle [Txt] Oh that would be appreciated! I liked pretty much everything. Oh, wait, that pumpkin soup with the chopped pumpkin bits added wasn't a very good texture, but the taste was amazing.
@AurumMeddle [TXT] Sounds good to me. I could also just let her know you like surprises in general, even if the gift wouldn't be in your usual wheelhouse. Which do you think would be more fun?
@AurumMeddle [TXT] Hopefully it'll be easier to let it grow out more now that you have all the accessories to customise it further in the mean time. Anyway, I'll let Reine know it would be a good idea.