No matter what I choose to do in this life and no matter what choices I make, I will never demand that anyone or any institution change their beliefs for me.
Unpopular opinion. As a bisexual member of the church and one who is somewhat distancing themselves from the church, I need to say this. It is not the church’s job to conform to how I live my life. If I choose to remain with the church, it is my job to conform to it.
If we continue with judging others, being rude, gossiping, disrespectful words and behaviors, and being unkind then it’s time to reevaluate. If you’re not being Christlike, you’re being devilish.
I never thought I would have an affair. That’s not me. And yet, here I am in the middle of one. I sincerely apologize to everyone I’ve judged in the past.
I had a great valentines with my wife. We had fun, we had amazing sex (twice), and honestly reconnected as a couple. But today I’m feeling so nostalgic(?) for a relationship that I’ve never been close to having with a man. It’s very confusing.