Sex in marriage is not something you "get from your spouse" or "give to your spouse" ... it's something to be SHARED between a husband and wife.
In fact, sexual intimacy in marriage is the place where you find a husband and wife both completely exposed and completely safe ... all at the same time.
A woman told me she cheated for the first and only time in a 6-year relationship.
She is not:
• unhappy in it
• someone who was looking
• able to fully explain it still
I asked what happened.
She said it started with one text from another man.
Here's exactly what it said👇
The best stage of a marriage isn’t the beginning.
It’s the stage that comes after you’ve been on the verge of falling apart.
After the bitterness, after the fights.
After you’ve both been through hell and somehow chose to stay.
When you make it through that season and still love each other on the other side something changes.
There’s a depth, a connection, and a quiet fulfillment that you simply cannot reach any other way.
That stage the one that only exists because you survived the hard part is the most beautiful stage of all.
Stats show that 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
Most men never realise that their marriage is almost over until its too late.
Here are some signs your wife is planning to divorce you:
1. She stops arguing with you.
Don’t involve your friends or family in your relationship or marriage.
Because, everyone has their own opinions. If you live with their expectations, you will never truly figure out what you actually want. Don’t let your family or friends control your dating life, relationship or marriage.
They are not evil but they can be emotionally biased. So, use your own mind. Self reflect. Find solutions together as a couple. Don’t involve anyone until there’s a big issue. Don’t share small things, small situations or your secrets to everyone because of some frustration that will ruin relationship or marriage. Still, if you need a real advice, go for counsellor/ therapist because they are unbiased.
The biggest mistake men make is thinking a woman will change after the ring but thats not case;
- If she was chaotic she will be more chaotic
- If she was disrespectful she will become 10x more
- If she gave you s3x once a week, it will be once a month
- If she was partying she will party more.
Because she now has security and she knows divorce is very expensive for you.
Never marry her hoping she will change, many me have fallen in this hole and they are suffering.
STAY GUIDED!!
Sex is not optional in marriage.
It’s the ultimate proof of polarity.
When sex dies, respect dies. When respect dies, the marriage becomes a business partnership with rings.
Never accept a sexless marriage.