i believe sex isn't the most intimate thing, conversation is. if i give you my body, i can take it back. but if i give you my thoughts, you walk away with a real piece of me. you walk away with what's under my skin. you walk away with what i am intimate with myself about.
PASSION IS PAIN
Passion comes from the Latin passio meaning 'to suffer.' It's not just liking what you do-it's driving yourself to unhealthy extremes to make something exactly the way you want it and obsessing over details most won't notice or understand. Be passionate. Suffer.
The human that depended on focused attention for its survival now becomes the distracted scanning animal, unable to think in depth, yet unable to depend on instincts.
Good communication really goes a long way. If you're busy, just say so. Feeling upset? Speak up. Running late? Let people know. Don't want to do something? Be honest. And if you're unsure, ask. It's simple but makes all the difference.
Animals learn through instinct, quickly adapting to avoid danger. In contrast humans rely on thinking & rationality-a slower, more introspective process.
'Mastery' lies in harmonizing instinctive decisions with rational thought & for that one must be fully present in the moment.