no but imagine lil tiny remus learning to say “oh, bother” from winnie the pooh and it never leaves him he says to any inconvenience for the rest of his life
and his friends start to say it too even if just ironically at first
i'm stuck here in a cycle and i am getting older but i am not growing up. my heart is getting soft dark spots on it like a fruit that has gone bad or is soft because too many hands have squeezed it.