You are allowed to quit. You are allowed to walk away. You are allowed to let go. Everything you start will not always prove to be worth your energy & that's ok. Don't force yourself to commit to an end result that requires more out of you than it can ever give back.
According to Jeremiah 29:11, everything is already planned out for your life. Trust God's guidance and have faith that He will lead you toward the path that's meant for you.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Date someone who is curious about you. Not someone who simply finds you attractive or entertaining, but someone who wants to know the person behind the surface. Someone who reads every message twice, remembers the stories you almost forgot to tell, and notices the little things no one else does. Someone who wants to know where your scars came from, what shaped you, what makes you laugh, and what keeps you awake at night. Attraction may draw someone in, but genuine interest is what makes them stay. Find someone who wants to learn every layer of who you are.
You can literally feel it in your soul when itβs time, time to stop settling, time to outgrow certain people, time to break habits that keep draining you, time to choose yourself in ways you never did before. There comes a moment when your spirit gets tired of surviving and starts craving elevation. You start wanting peace more than chaos, growth more than comfort, and purpose more than excuses.
when i feel unheard, i just stop speaking. it's not the healthiest trait but i rather reserve my energy for conversations with people who actively listen to me
Nobody talks about how peaceful it is to have money in the bank.
Not rich. Just enough. Enough to say no. Enough to wait. Enough to breathe.
That is the goal.
Iβm at a point in my life where I pray to keep meeting the right people. People who genuinely want the best for me, hold me in high regard, add value in my life, prioritize me and add peace to my life.