Maddy

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[27. @dimvji]

going on a walk will save you again and again and again and again

[Samrah @_Chemist1]

Intelligent people are INTENSELY OBSERVANT. They can literally see right through people: their intentions, their animosity, and their lies. That's why they don't entertain performative energy, they live a quiet life & mind their own business.

[The Counselor @TheCounselorNG]

The fact that you can now see how your response may have landed is an important step. Insight is valuable. But remember this: insight doesn't erase impact.

Many people believe relationships end because someone stopped loving. More often, they end because someone stopped feeling understood. When a partner is hurting, they're rarely asking you to solve the problem. They're asking, 'Do you see my pain? Does my pain matter to you?' If your first instinct is to explain, analyze, or defend, they often hear, 'Your feelings aren't important enough for me to stay with them.

Your calmness wasn't necessarily the problem. The problem was timing. Logic has a place, but not before empathy. People don't usually absorb explanations until they've first felt emotionally safe.

If you decide to speak with her, don't make your goal reconciliation. Make your goal truth. Tell her what you've learned about yourself, not what she should do with that information. Don't ask her to reconsider. Don't ask for another chance. Simply acknowledge the hurt you now understand you contributed to.

Something as simple as, 'I realize now that while I was trying to understand what happened, I failed to show you that I understood what you were feeling. I can see how lonely that must have been for you. I'm sorry,' carries far more weight than a long explanation.

And one final thought: if your apology creates pressure for her to comfort you, forgive you immediately, or reopen the relationship, it's no longer an apology, it's a negotiation. A genuine apology gives the other person freedom. It says, 'Whether or not this changes anything between us, you deserved better from me in that moment.

Sometimes the greatest act of love isn't convincing someone to come back. It's becoming the kind of person who would have loved them better, whether they return or not. That growth is never wasted.

[Maddy @WTFmaddy]

I love spending time with my babygirl 🥹💕

[𝓓𝓾𝓴𝓮 🧃 @fwsodiq]

I don’t have a genre limit. I just love good music

[Mr. Biscuit @Personhavingfun]

Something about a butterfly flying past you

[Fav ⛧ @Favwontmiss]

YOU KNOW WHAT KEEPS EVERYONE COOLER IN THE SUMMER? TREES, YOU IDIOTS. GIVE US BACK OUR TREES BACK.

[Maddy @WTFmaddy]

@Dretheguard What that gotta do with the present? Clearly “was” is past tense, so your point is?

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

May you receive a deposit of $5,000 with no strings attached

[z 🍒 @itszairia]

i’m real big on not wasting my time, i don’t use ppl as fillers. i’d rather b alone than entertaining useless connections

[🫧 @sijuagain]

chase nothing but a better life

[𓅓 @Anomaly_0n_x]

Judge me by the people I avoid.

[Siani Rose | Screenwriter @onlysianirose]

Princess treatment is cute. Goddess worship feels more appropriate.

[Vivian @suchnerve]

And yes I do think human connection is the point of life. What about it

[MP Arizona☀️🏳️‍🌈💙🌵🐕🐕‍🦺🫂💦🏜🐟🌴🎙🌎🌻♍️🌊 @AzPetrich]

Let me be VERY clear for those of you in the back. If bringing down the largest child sex trafficking ring in our known history will "collapse the government as we know it," then the government as we know it needs to collapse.

[Fav ⛧ @Favwontmiss]

FRIENDLY REMINDER THAT WE LITERALLY DEPEND ON TREES, CLEAN WATER, HEALTHY SOIL, AND STABLE ECOSYSTEMS TO EXIST. THAT'S NOT AN OPINION, IT IS HOW LIFE WORKS. STOP TREATING OUR FORESTS, RIVERS, OCEANS, AND WILDLIFE LIKE THEY'RE REPLACEABLE

[‏ً @omgsidewalks]

Water is a birthright and NOT a commodity. Water belongs to the earth, to other species, and to future generations. No corporation has the right to control it.

[Maddy @WTFmaddy]

That’s my babygirl for real

[Maddy @WTFmaddy]

Tequila is a hell of a drug

[🐆 @yareishaa]

the only reason i bounce back quick is because i allow myself to be manic for 3 days