I want to be loved without uncertainty. I want someone who's proud to choose me, who can't stop thinking about me and doesn't hide it. Someone who's excited to see me, tells their friends about me, and makes me feel wanted in every possible way. I want someone who desires me just as deeply as I desire them.
Sikunywi pombe because I've seen how it has ruined my uncles and a large portion of the extended family. Some of my cousins have legit lost their parents to alcohol. Me choosing a healthy lifestyle (and avoiding liver cirrhosis lmao) is not being performative.
I’m in love with this quote:
"If God can take away something you never imagined losing, then surely God can grant you something you never imagined gaining." 🕊️
I have a friend who doesn’t tell anyone anything. You won’t know she’s about to move until she has already moved. You won’t know she’s getting a car until she already has one. Even the problems between her and her boyfriend are none of our business.
I used to think she wasn’t being a good friend because she didn’t share her personal life. But now I understand why she doesn’t. It’s nothing personal, she just keeps her business private. And as I get older, I definitely see why.
I wanna have it all, the masters, the money, the lexus, the mansion, the stamped passport, the skills, the name, the PhD, the partner, the happiness.
All of the good things
I love deep conversations like really wanna know why you got D in Mathematics, you had a calculator, a log table plus your fingers to count, what happened dear?
there’s a quote i love that says ‘there are years that ask questions and years that answer those questions’ and i hope this year is the year that answers. 🤍
I am sorry , as an adult i do not have space for non affectionate people and people who use words carelessly. Words are deep for me. I am thaat sensitive with words.
There are bits of me I hope I never lose. My smile, my laughter, my heart and how large it is, my grace, kindness and warmth. The world has tried hardening me, but I will forever choose to be soft. And I’ll keep holding on to that gently but firmly, for as long as I live.
Insecure people should not be managers. Their jealousy pushes them to sabotage strong talent instead of leading it, and everyone loses in the process 👌🏼
Please I'm begging you people, take an interest in other things that do not necessarily have anything to do with your career. You could be an Engineer, but please read up on literature. You could be a lawyer, but at least be curious who Frank Lloyd Wright was. Be curious man.