No, transmisogyny is specifically a term that describes the intersection of transphobia and misogyny that trans women experience. Please read Whipping Girl by Julia Serano where the term was coined.
@Anarchosuchus I honestly have not had anyone describe tma/tme that wasn't just them say afab and amab, and even if it wasn't the terms are useless. Literally everyone is affected by transmisogyny
@mostlyyconfused@oncloud_e It's not really "personal experiences" lmao, there are entire books written about how patriarchal and androcentric our society is, and continues being thx to dismissive attitudes like yours going "it's just how it is". Don't bother with convos you don't care about.
@mostlyyconfused@oncloud_e Being in many transfem-only groups, it's a recurring complaint of smtg we have to deal with, and then have to deal with ppl justifying to us why it's actually okay and gender neutral...so I'd rather you didn't try to justify it to me cuz your friends are fine with it.
@mostlyyconfused@oncloud_e Sure. But most of the transfems don't like being called 'bro', 'man', 'dude', etc. That includes me. ESPECIALLY by men. I don't think "masc terms are gender neutral because my transfems friends are okay being called that" is a good argument.
@mostlyyconfused@oncloud_e I disagree? We as a society still very much understand it to have masculine conotations, otherwise transfems wouldn't generally be displeased by being called that. And 'bro' is still the diminutive of 'brother', which is a very binary masc term.
@mostlyyconfused@oncloud_e I'm not talking about individual intention, just pointing out that our society is built on androcentrism. It's not a callout, but it's important to be aware of. And disagree, het men do not like being called 'sis' usually lmao, but use 'bro' all the time. That's a large group :P
@mostlyyconfused@oncloud_e How is it not patriarchal for the masculine term to be the accepted normal default for everyone and the feminine term to sound odd and out of place, especially when addressing men lol
Trans women should be allowed to make mistakes without inciting mob violence.
TME ppl see a trans woman they can hit and can't wait to join in the fun, itching with excitement to punch down.
TMA ppl are incentivized to join in, and HAL other TMA ppl.
Obey, or else..
@akiangelrei@t4inted_s0rrow Literally everyone gets accused of being trans. Ppl accused Margot Robbie of being trans, even tho she's conventionally attractive and fem. But c!s dudes don't look like c!s women with boobs on accident, otherwise being mtf would be way easier lol.
@akiangelrei@t4inted_s0rrow I have plenty of feminine c!s gay guy friends, and I don't know any c!s man that passes as a full on c!s woman. Usually those are not actually c!s men, they're trans women lol.
@Spoofermaner@t4inted_s0rrow Have you tried being a non transitioning trans woman that looks like a dude and actually go out in society? To women's bathrooms? Cuz shit's hard even for tgirls that do transition. I wish yall lived in the real world and were aware of the actual challenges trans ppl face.