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Living and Thriving

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@HrhKingAlex Thank you for voicing my thoughts 😊

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@peegzy1 Why any one calls their pastor daddy is crazy!!! Def not my brand of Christianity

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@lifedebugged1 @AsakyGRN This what I came to write. Diamond trying so hard to be MJ 😆

[Blake Burge @blakeaburge]

A rule that will improve your life: Never assume bad intent, but don’t ignore repeated patterns. Everyone gets grace. Nobody gets unlimited passes.

[👑K I N G👑 @kingsuleiman27]

Until you evolve, unlearn, relearn, and realize that women of this generation will not endure the bad treatments many of your mothers endured in the hands of your fathers, y’all will keep having failed marriages.

[introvert @livewithnoregrt]

Once you hit a certain age you become permanently unimpressed by a lot of shit.

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

Same! Can't even call it gullibility!!

[Ụlọma 💜 @ulxma]

I automatically think less of you if you align yourself with this filth, even as a joke. How many more accusations does one need to take this criminal seriously? What is even the appeal? Stupid, shameless women. 🤢

[O R O M A ✨ @_Romsss]

Cheating will always be ridiculous to me because nobody put a gun to your head and forced you into a committed relationship.
You could’ve stayed single and done whatever you wanted with whoever you wanted.

[Tems POV @temspov]

Tems performs “What You Need” at the #BETAwards

[The Jobfather ® 🇯🇲🇨🇦🇬🇧 @TheJobfather__]

The more senior the role, the less you should sound like you are begging for approval. You are there to assess fit too.

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@compoundinnaira What a shitshow. Scrap

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

Appreciate you sharing this. Let kids be kids. Mistakes happen, even with adults

[Chicken Catcher🐔 @Only1Etubo]

Last week, I went to visit a family friend at her shop, and while we were talking, she called her 7-year-old daughter to get a bottle of Coke from the fridge. The little girl grabbed the bottle, slipped, and dropped it. The bottle shattered everywhere.

As I got up to ask if she was okay, she immediately got up, ignored the broken glass around her, ran out of the shop, and started crying. Her mother was livid. She called her back into the shop to face the consequences and yelled some hurtful words at her.

I helped clean up the mess and asked the child to stay outside because her mom was so upset. Then I asked the mother why she was so angry. She said the girl was too playful. I told her I had been watching and that the child wasn’t playing at all; she simply slipped and fell.

She repeated that the girl was always too playful. I acknowledged that she might be, but that wasn’t why the Coke dropped. I saw what happened: it was clear that she slipped.

I then asked her to try to understand the difference between a child being playful and an accident happening. After all, she could have dropped the bottle, too, if she had slipped. I reminded her that while our children can sometimes be playful, accidents happen, and they are still just kids.

We shouldn’t beat or punish them for every mistake. Sometimes, we need to talk to them instead.

Imagine being so afraid of your parent that you run over broken glass just to avoid being punished. What if she had slipped again and gotten seriously hurt? All over a mistake that could happen to anyone.

I understand that parenting is hard and can be exhausting, but we need to stop taking our frustrations out on our children. It’s not okay.

She was quiet for most of the conversation because I was upset, too. Later, she wanted to use food as a way of apologizing, asking her, “Come here, I know you are hungry. What would you like to eat?” but I insisted that she talk to her daughter instead. I wanted the child to understand that it was just an accident and to hear from her mother that accidents happen.

Sometimes, that’s what children need most, not punishment, but understanding.

So, my fellow parents, please and please and please. These kids are just kids. Their brains are just developing, and they need our help, support, and guidance through these stages. Do not blame and punish them for everything.

[Tyler Todt @tyromper]

My dad warned my sister there was a high tide & the ocean would be really dangerous before they left.

One day a few years ago in North Carolina a HORROR STORY happened & within the blink of an eye my families life changed forever.

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@tyromper Good stuff

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@TheIgboWolf 😂😂

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@xoreniii Even as a skit, this should not exist

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

Well said. You failed the whole family not just the spouse

[Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist @AdamLaneSmith]

If you cheat on your spouse, and you’ve got children together, you’ve also cheated on your kids.

Your spouse can recover, but you just destroyed your kids’ family. You betrayed their need for stability and trust. They’ve got a right to be angry.

[Chief Observer @Walmun1]

@tosinolaseinde Yep. An app like Poshmark could work or even just an IG page

[Carl Mbao @CarlMbao]

An extremely important part of living a good life is simply accepting the season you are in.

[B 🦋 @DontWorryBoutB]

work on being more secure as a person for your own sake. and especially for the rest of the world’s!!!! PLEASE