Every time I start a sentence with “I mean this in the nicest way” you should know there was in fact a nicer way to say it but I consciously chose the brutal alternative and consciously chose to gaslight you by convincing you it’s the nicest way.
One of the most interesting things that I learnt over the years is that you can never force friendships. No matter how much you try. You either get along with someone effortlessly and you find yourself their friend for some reason or you just don't.
You hear the news and it appears to you that the world is coming to an end... Then, you take a look inside your head and you find out that, for a while now, you may have been already dead..
I wish less people glorified accomplishing things before 30. More exploring. More starting over at 40. More finding your true passion at 50. More moving across the country at 60. People get complacent because they think life has a time limit.
It doesn't.
Celebrate lifelong evolution.
I never want to be easily defined, but I sometimes say to myself, wouldn't life be easier if I was? wouldn't that make it easier to figure out what I want in life and who I am? I'm starting to think that if I was easily defined, my life wouldn't have been so perplexing.
الناس بتزعل تروح تنزل الچيم تغير جسمها و تدخل علاقات مش صحية، انا بزعل بقعد اذاكر و امتحن شهادات جديدة… لو حد في يوم لقاني بعمل ماسترز يطمن عليا اني كويس
Hello there, I am not your mother; I am your colleague. So grow up and work on your dysfunctional personal dynamics that makes you tend to depend on other people to get everything handed over to you. Because guess what? You are an adult now! Grow Up.
When you quit people-pleasing and start to honor yourself by choosing what you actually want, a lot of people get upset and you might lose them. But that's okay. This is your filtration phase. Some have to go to make room for those who deserve to be in your life.
جماعة أحب أريبورت إن الحياة بقت أخف بكتير من ساعة ما بطلت أjustify تصرفاتي للآخرين وأعتذرلهم ع الفاضية والمليانة. وبطلت بردو أسمح لحد يحسسني بالذنب لما أرفض أعمل الحاجات اللي مش عايزة أعملها، بس كنت بعملها بس لإر��اء الآخرين على حسب نفسي. بطلناها الشغلانة دي الحمد لله 😎