I believe in re-reading and re-watching your favourite books and movies at different stages of your life. the plot never changes, but your perspective does.
I think it’s so sad that some men feel so little control over their lives, so little happiness, so little joy that they can only imagine feeling powerful, strong, and happy by exploiting women.
Someone told me family doesn’t make decisions for you based on what is best for you, but rather for their own safety and convenience. Once I realized that, I stopped giving a fuck
I’m actually a believer that your shouldn’t manipulate a child’s hair permanently (locs, perms, etc) until they make the conscious decision to ask. I’m anti-perm for everybody tho.
If your baby is 4 and said they want locs then get emmmmm! But until then… just do their hair.